what are some ways to become popular in school?
aslo, how to talk to the popular girls, and about what.
I dont care if this means im shallow or whatever
2006-07-29 20:31:33 · 10 answers · asked by Rita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being outgoing is a good way to become more popular. I totally understand your desire to be popular. I used to not be at all, but now I am. I wouldn't say to totally be yourself yet. When you're trying to befriend peoples its best to try to conform to them and form a relationship, then slowly reveal more of yourself to them. If that makes any sense. Be nice to them..etc etc. Hope this helps.
2006-07-29 20:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Popularity can mean two things. It can mean that you're well known (but not neccisarily well-liked) or that you're truly everyone's friend. I urge you to go for the second choice. If you're nice and friendly with everyone, then people will know you, and they'll know you in a positive way. That seems, at least to me, to be true popularity.
What qualities do you look for in a friend? Nice? Honest? Trustworthy? Fun? Try and really foster those in yourself. Being outgoing is important. Try everything you're interested in - be it a different sport, a new extra-curricular...whatever. And give 110% at whatever you do - people like that, and they find it contagious.
Do your absolute best to be in a good mood each day - don't get dragged down by little things. "Laugh and the world laughs with you...weep, and you weep alone." Don't take this overboard (nobody expects you to be all sunshiny if your dog's just died), but it is really important.
One last, truly important thing - DON'T try and conform to be a typical "popular girl." Be yourself. You've heard it a million times. People can see through fakeness almost immediatley. Think of a time when someone you met was obviously trying too hard to be someone who they weren't. Not a good trait, huh? It just pushes people away. And even if they didn't see through it, it's exhausting trying to keep up an appearance - you won't even have any enjoyment out of being popular!
Remember that popular girls are JUST people. Talk to them the same way you would talk to your friends. Be an interesting, fun, honest person. Just be YOU. and they'll accept that.
2006-07-29 20:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by theaterflicka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 be nice to everybody no matter how mean they are to you (you look way cooler if you don't stress about stuff) 2 be picky (about guys girls whatever its called supply and demand supply goes down demand goes up) 3 wear nice clothing (not necessarily trendy or expensive just make sure its absolutely spotless and it fits you well) 4 put make up on correctly (you really don't want to look like a hooker or a clown browns and pinks are universally flattering and match just about every outfit you have stay away from blues, purples, or greens basically anything that really stands out) 5 don't be a know it all or tattle tail unless its something thats really really gonna get people hurt ie drunk driving 6 if you want to talk to the popular girls start by sitting next to them in class. If you are particularly good at a subject help them OCCASIONALLY if you do it all the time they'll just use you, listen to there conversations after you have established that they know you exist then IF you have something to contribute to the conversation say something if you always smile and nod or say yeah thats so awesome you just look like you don't have your own opinions. 7 DO NOT sleep around you won't be popular just a sl*t (goes back to supply and demand) 8 turn a couple of guys down when they ask you out (supply and demand again) 9 have nice stuff if you can afford it but don't flash money around it just makes you look pretentious quality speaks for itself and doesn't need a flashy name on it. 10 be elegant (elegance is the art of restraint... from wearing that really cute trend that doesn't suit you to not saying what you feel at the moment) 11 don't curse I know I sound prude but you just look like a redneck ladies don't curse. I graduated a couple of years ago but when I was in school I ruled the school. So hope this helps.
2006-07-29 20:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
be yourself...cuz thats the true key to show the others that you are somebody.when u dare to be yourself you've proven that you're actually someone.don't change yourself to be someone else than yourself...you will not succeed in the end,be comfotable of who you are and be proud that you are the person today because there is no one like you...that's y we say that everyone is unique!life is short so whatever comes in the future learn to enjoy it rather than changing it ...one doesn;'t need to be loud and poisterous to be popular.Being yourself is the coolest thing to do!Do you think the gals who r popular has no problems or anything...they just don't show it off that they have one...But if u wanna be popular and tok to those gals...there is absutely no reasons u shouldn't...as long as u r comfortable...GOOG LUCK!
2006-07-29 21:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by nabila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be nice & dress good like them. Be nice to them & talk & ask to hang out. Just be nice & don't be 2faced & yeah you'll be popular if you get at least 1 of the popular girls to be friends with you.
2006-07-29 21:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by missjaneyxD 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-04-05 01:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study hard. have 2 or 3 friends only. be beautiful.good relation with 2 teachers.do all teh exersices correct
2006-07-29 20:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
juz be true to your self... and be nice to others
2006-07-29 20:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be ur self
2006-07-29 22:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't know how coz i am popular
2006-07-29 23:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by ~sad person right now~ 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋