Do you ever love your husband so much its crazy ! Then the next day you can't even stand him for a week or sooo? If so how come ?
2006-07-29 20:24:28 · 11 answers · asked by Crazydays 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is a choice. There are times when you have to choose to love someone. Especially when life brings the promised ups and downs. The problem we have as females is that we often want life to be perfect and we want him to be perfect all the time. Sometimes he can't and isn't all we need him to be and then we start to feel like he doesn't love us and if we think on that too long we will start to look around for "greener grass". There really is no such thing as Mr. Right. There are days when he is Mr. Wonderful and Mr. Romantic and days when he is Mr. Inconsiderate, Mr. Selfish, and Mr. Oh My gosh why did I marry you. Bottom line is love is what makes you hang in there for the good days. Only love!
2006-07-29 20:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by krichard70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It gets like that sometimes. It depends on what has happened to get us into that situation.
When he's home from work on shut down, he drives me nuts, because he's bored all the time, so I tell him to go fishing.
Sometimes him going fishing all the time, drives me nuts as well. As it seems he has all the free time away from the kids, and I never ever seem to get my share.
But then he'll do something silly and I can see why we are still together after all these years, 14.
2006-07-29 20:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mummabear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do it often I just call it PMS and let it be. Honestly though I don't know why one day I will look at him and think god I love him more than anything then the next day I don't evenwant to hear his voice let alone look at him.
I think it is just being around someone for that length of time. I was the same way with my parents I would love them to death one day and hate them the next.
2006-07-29 22:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. You love him in-and-out one day. And you hate everything of him the next. Due to differences between men & women.
Women are like "waves of the ocean". Up one day, down the next. In order to be up, one has to be "very down in the deepest well" before going up again. When down, she's processing all the feelings & emotions, it's like "emotional housecleaning". The woman will get irritable/frustrated/upset for all the overwhleming feelings in her. Everything seems not right for the woman which is not literally true. What she needs is her husband's love, understanding & support to get through this down period. And then, she's up & about & full of love for her hubby & family.
Men are like "rubberbands". They need to stretch out to be in their space & solitude to tune up themselves & recharge their batteries. Men do one thing at a time due to their hunting nature by default. It could be pc surfing, tv watching, newspaper reading etc. Any intrusion into their solitude makes them defensive/irritable/frustrated/upset, and they say/do nasty things which are not meant to be as they're in the process of recharging. The wife will have to respect his space and wait fot him to spring back from solitude with more bounce, power & strength for himself & for her.
Understanding the differences between men & women helps a great deal in all relationships. And it will answer your main question.
2006-07-29 22:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I love him all the time, I just don't like his actions some of the times lol.
2006-07-29 20:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant always get along that's what a marriage is all about sticking together through it all even when you don't feel it
2006-07-29 20:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by mommasan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I love him even if I am mad at him that what true love really is.
2006-07-29 20:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kiss your husband xxs when you sure you out of mind .
2006-07-29 20:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by moto m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love him I feel is like my baby
2006-07-29 23:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by sharibar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are not happley married or thinking of cheating on him in my opion?
2006-07-29 20:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋