2006-07-29 20:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by Motownphili 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not to be offensive, but are u catholic? There is a common problem that catholics often have, where a man will put his wife on such a pedestal that he stopes seeing her as a person, and sees her as a saint or virginal one. Then the guy can't do dirty stuff with her b/c he might tarnish her.
Your wife is a women, a person, a human. She has feelings, she has a libido, she enjoyes sex and there is nothing wrong with that. Start looking at her as a human with urges and needs. Let her be real, let her get dirty, without being thought of as a bad person. this is a challenge. this problem often leads to lots of men cheating on their wives with sluts that they can treat dirty. The secret that these men need to know is that EVERY women is, inside of herself, both a madonna (virgin) and a whore (dirty girl) at different moments in her life, this is natural and okay.
Try to understand her as a real human and u will be on your way to fixing the problem. Also, don't cheat on her, or that makes you a whore. Don't take the easy way out by sexing it up with other women, give your love to the woman that it belongs to... your wife.
2006-07-29 20:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are not suppose to have sex with anyone except your wife.......Of course eating Mc Donald everyday is boring...but there are way to rekindle the fire back. Stop sleeping with other women. U don't say u love your wife cos if you did, u wouldn't sleep with another knowing that will hurt her feelings.....it's you who decides whether it's fun or boring......don't blame it to your wife.. Do things with passion.
2006-07-30 03:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't. If you loved her like a husband should, you wouldn't be having sex with other people. You have a friendship. Do your wife a huge favor and get a divorce.
2006-07-30 03:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really loved her as u proclaimed,then u'll do ur best to stop messing 'round. No 1 said it'd be easy,but @ least u tried for both ur sakes. When u luv sum1, u don't hurt them on purpose.
And if u got sum kinda sex addiction, then get help 4 it,dude.
2006-07-30 04:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sleeping with others than she is not really enjoy sex with you either. Don't for a minute assume she doesn't know. Women know when a man is a cheater. You are asking for trouble.
2006-07-30 05:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by krichard70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married? You should only be with your wife. You shouldn't know that you like sex with other people. Spice it up in the bed room. If you really loved her you wouldn't be sharing yourself with other people.
2006-07-30 03:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be having sex with ONLY your wife.
What you are doing is WRONG.
2006-07-30 03:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've just gotten to used to a routine or maybe becuase the two of you have just gotten too comfortable with each other maybe it's not her maybe your at a point in your life where the sex isn't the most important thing on your mind.
2006-07-30 03:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAUSE YOUR A FOOL................EVER HEARD OF STD..s.......IDDIOT...OR RUSSiAN ROULETTE WELL IF YOU DIDNT THAT KIND OF PLAY WILL ONLY MAKE YOU AND YOUR INNOCENT WIFE A STATISTIC YOUR A FOOL....GROW UP AND HOW CAN YOU PLAY GOD WITH YOUR WIFES LIFE AS YOU DO.? DO YOU HAVE KIDS? I HOPE NOT!!...YOU LOVE HER YOU SAY???IM SO SORRY BUT YOU DONT EVEN LOVE YOURSELF...WITH THAT TYPE OF BEHAVIOR YOUR A PIG... WELL IT SEEMS TO ME ITS TRUE WHAT THEY SAY A D===K HAS NO CONTIENTS....by the way is your name DICK?
2006-07-30 03:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then u obviously don't love her very much now huh pal! Think about it.
2006-07-30 03:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by mellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋