Todays casual talk to me is such a distortion of realism that can be expierianced when being in a relationship. Like i didnt like my girlfriend bringing the worlds crap home to me via her mouth, and vice versa. All she knows is the lovable things that i consistantly say to her, but it seems like it just doesnt belong. whats do u guys think?
2006-07-29 20:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by the sponge 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I see where your coming from. Not everything needs to be hashed out. But if you care about someone, you want to know how they are feeling and what they are experiencing. Your love fantasy might last for a little while, but if your girlfriend can't vent to you, she'll find someone else who will listen. Watch the movie, "Last Tango in Paris". The lovers in that movie had a similar concept. See how it worked out. Of course it's only a movie.
2006-07-29 20:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by klunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has been repeated so many times it is a cliche - but apparently it
hasn't been repeated enough:
The key to a strong relationship is good communication.
Just because right now you think she understands you doesn't mean you
are right - and it doesn't mean that things won't change.
There are vast libraries of books written about how men and women
do not understand each other (communicate in different ways). What
makes you think your relationship will be any different?
2006-07-29 20:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends is the love strong or are you just saying it because if it strong then you try to make it work do different things with her/him if it is just a one min. thing then let her/him go you do you and that person do them in other words break up
2006-07-29 20:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by b.d.s. d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH? That's the very person you should be talking to! Do you know how rare it is for someone to actually listen to you while you're talking? Make the best of it... unless u're just in it for the you know what.
2006-07-29 20:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by **Shannen** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like to eat and everyone knows about it do you really need to say you are hungry?
Yes, people still need to hear it...
2006-07-29 20:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip the talk and just mate.
2006-07-29 20:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what to think, do you not want to discuss the world affairs? Or is question concerning saying I love you, please clarify.
2006-07-29 20:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by aj1908 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright youre ok
2006-07-29 20:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋