Here's the details, we met before she was married, but before we met she's always been with the guy she'd be married to today, and I fell in love with her the moment I layed eyes on her. Of course, because she was always with this guy, we never got physical, but he went off to the military and there was definitly a deep spiritual, and emotional bond between me and her, she knew I loved her because I had sent her an email confessing all of it in the first week I'd known her... maybe I should've played it more cool, or done something to show her why she needs to be with me, but now she's gone and married, and I'm alone... what should I do?
2006-07-29 20:01:05 · 12 answers · asked by Petey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave her alone, she is a married woman. Go find you another one that is single. I mean stop and think about it, you get married to a woman and then you find out that another man is chasing after your wife, are you going to like it, I don't think so.
2006-07-29 20:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Have the integrity to know this is not right. How much respect would you have for her if she left her husband for you? Could you love and respect a woman who would do that?
Let her go, move on. She obviously loves her husband, she married him - respect that and find someone who can return your love.
2006-07-30 03:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, take a hint if she loved you or felt even a little of what you do, Do you think she would have got married anyway? Move on.
2006-07-30 03:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S MARRIED! There isn't anything you can do. Take the time and get over her because she is now a shipwreck waiting to happen as far as you're concerned.
2006-07-30 03:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont need to read the details buddy leave her the hell alone , unless she gets a divorce . Thats all .
2006-07-30 03:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be......get on with your life and accept the fact that she is married.. loving her as a friend can be just as comforting.. but leave it as friends
2006-07-30 03:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing - she is married - hands off
If she were to cheat with you now, how would you know that she wouldn't do the same thing to you later on??
Cheating should not be encouraged, so don't even tell her you have feelings for her - move on.
2006-07-30 03:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by vw4meee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's married, leave her be. Find someone else, then you will forget all about her, maybe your absessing cause your lonely
2006-07-30 03:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a single woman this is logic as well if she cared for you she would have never married another man . my opion?
2006-07-30 03:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She answered this for you when she married someone else.
2006-07-30 03:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tha Pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋