Is it time to let go?

Question

I love my boyfriend. We have been through soo much together. I broke up with him twice,and all through those times he never gave up on me. We needed talk for 7 months, and 3 months later we started talking and dating again. I love him, but my heart hurts because, I think that our time has already come and go. I hate saying that, I dont want to let go, but im tired of having these feelings. He has never done anything wrong to me. when we were broken up he dated another girl, and met a few too. He never let himself go to far with them, because he never let me go in his heart and mind. But I think that I should have never talked to him again at all. I feel like I interfered with his life again. Im sooo sad. I feel like he deserves someone soo much better than me. I cry sometimes, because all i want is for him to be happy. Im 16 by the way. We have known eachother for 2 years. What do I do?

Answer 1

Your young first loves we never get over it is a memory that you will always have in your heart. Only you will know when to let go, but please dont make your self sick and never think he deserves better as you are thinking of him an not your self. You are only hurting yourself all wounds heal in time, believe me life goes on. feel you know its over you have to move on as he did once, before long your tears will stop.

Answer 2

Nobody can tell you whether you should let go or not. I am going through the same hurt and pain as you are because my boyfriend of 4 years wants to date other women. Everyone tells me to let him go... but I just don't have the strength to. So right now, I'm suffering by myself because I decided to wait for him until he's ready for a commitment, taking a risk that he might not even want me anymore after he meets other people.

So my point is... letting go of someone is a tough decision that only you can make. It takes a lot of strength and courage. I didn't have that... and now, my heart bears a lot of pain everyday. Do you want that for yourself, girl? Think about it...

Answer 3

well then u need 2 b honest with him. if it were the other way around, wouldnt u want him 2 b honest with u? i mean, wut else r u gonna do? continue living a lie with him? its true - ur time together may have already come and gone. but ur 16 and u have ur whole life ahead of u. at 16 years old we say a lot of "deep" things and we have a lot of "strong" emotions. but when u are my age (in my 20's) and u look back on ur own life at age 16 u will really c how much u have grown emotionally as a person. we live and we learn. just treat others how u would want them 2 treat u.

Answer 4

listen am 16 years too but i have to say this i hate saying but to make someone day then i got to say this there is no man in this world to cry for a man there is a time which you have to let go and dont go back there move on like he did and never look back its hurting right isn't it hurt a lot never look back forgive and forget it i know is not easy for you to do but forget him tell him that you dont want to see him no more this has happen to me a lot 2 or even 3 times is terrible for me is not easy when i seen her move on then i did dont give up either move on move on its that simple

Answer 5

Let him go... You are obviously not happy within yourself and until you are you wont be happy with anyone. So dont hold him back with your unhappiness. I have been there and I know what you are going thru. There will be a time when you are happy and then the time will come and you will me someone who is just completely wonderful but you need to get yourself taken care of before you can get into a relationship. i know it hurts to let him go but its for the best because in the end if you dont he will let you go. You can only take someone so far down with you before they decide to come up for air so just get it over with before either one of you gets hurt worse.

Answer 6

reltionships dont work if the other feels that they are not good enogh or better than the other. if you have always felt like you were not good enough for him then you need to move on. why do you feel like you are not good enough. did you do something bad to him in the relationship? or do you just not think you are a good enough person. You should really lookinto getting help. your self esteem really effects how you are in relationships. self esteem can effect whiether you act as a good person or not, like cheating, being mean, not feeling attractive. BEcause you dont feel good about yourself you dont feel deep inside you need to be good. so you give up. get help and talk to him about this. if he is willing to stick it out untill you get the help then stay with him.

Answer 7

Its time to move on. You are young other things will happen for you. I mean you have broken up with him 2 times in 2 years something must not be right

Answer 8

if you think he deserves someone better, if you think you've interefered with his life, but you still love him, and he loves you, then make sure you are that person he deserves.

this actually kind of relates to me right now...but unfortunately i dont think my ex will do that for me. actually im honestly not sure. but what YOU need to do is what my ex can't. you need to be the person he deserves. be there for him. enjoy life together and dont break up with him like you did before (i assume YOU broke up with HIM?)

Answer 9

You leave him alone and move on with your life. Teens bounce back quick.

Answer 10

go wit 'ju heart.