Please help I'm gonna get an abortion if pregnant? Help Asap?

Question

Hi Im 16 yrs old and a junior in highschool I was wondering could I be pregnant? Well it started from may 14th 2006 when I started having sex with my bf We HAVE ALWAYS HAD UNPROTECTED SEX and I think I may be pregnant well he always used the pull out method but one time during may I wasn't getting moisture down there and He nu**** on my vaginal area unprotectedly and we had sex from there! Last time I had sex was june 1st right before i menustrated, and We didn't use a condom but I dont think He nu**** in me! But I also got my period on july 4th but was abnormal I have been feeling weird starting today could I be pregnant? or should I just wait, at night I have been feeling Real naseua like I have to throw up, and hot flashes, and a increase of weight and a firm stomach and been feeling real tired Is it stress or signs of pregnancy can anyone PLease Help With These Syptoms? I AM NOT STABLE FOR CHILDREN BUT MY BF IS I THINK HE DID IT ON PURPOSE?

Answer 1

Please go to a pregnancy care center near you as soon as possible. They will be able to give you a free, confidential pregnancy test so that you can know for sure where you stand. You can find a center near you here:

http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

or by calling 1-800-395-HELP. If you're interested, they can also give you referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance, free maternity and baby supplies, pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information, and counseling and emotional support. Some centers can even give you a free ultrasound, so you can see your baby.

If you are pregnant, please don't let anyone hurt your baby. She is depending on you, her mommy, for love and protection. Regardless of your situation, she does not deserve to die. Please make sure you have all the facts:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

You can also connect with other teens who are or have been in your situation here:

http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

If you are pregnant, you CAN do the right thing and protect your baby and yourself.

Answer 2

Of course you have a chance of being pregnant. You had unprotected sex, what did you expect? A fun night with your boyfriend and no concequences? You have to think about these things before you act on them, hunny. Why don't you just get a pregnancy test?

Some pointers: Use protected sex from now on. It doesn't always work, but it decreases your chances of getting pregnant (and apparently you didn't know that?). Also, if you go on birth control, it can regulate your periods again.

Another pointer: If you are pregnant, do NOT get an abortion. Be a woman and deal with your concequences. It's not the baby's fault that you screwed up, now is it? No. The least you can do is put it into an adoption center. Any family here in America would snatch up another American baby like nothin'.

Answer 3

I think you may be freaking out a bit. Sometimes the anxiety of thinking your pregnant can make you sick. If you got your period on the 4th of July then your not even late yet. If you are too scared to take a pregnancy test, go to one of those crisis pregnancy centers and they will give you one. When I was young, I thought I was pregnant and just didn't have the balls to actually buy a test, so I went to one of those places. If your pregnant, your boobs will hurt really bad. So, if you are not pregnant you seriously need to be more careful. Stop having sex and start using the pill and a condom. Pulling out is not effective! I really hope this is just a scare for you.

Answer 4

a million. quit having unprotected intercourse, this is as stupid as you will get. 2. do no longer kill a baby, supply it up for adoption, merely because you have been dumb does no longer advise the little human in you will desire to die a terrible dying (fantasy: that's a female's physique and he or she will do what she needs with it. fact: as quickly as you're pregnant that's no longer your physique, it belongs to the the two considered one of you, merely because you may no longer see her does no longer advise she isn't per you. 3. advance up, now. To ROSE decrease than me with the long and pointless answer: i'm no longer an entire professional-lifer of even have self assurance in god. Your pushing your time table in the direction of a sixteen twelve months previous which would be pregnant is a approaches way off base. Do you think of she needs to hearken to your s**t precise now? It has no longer something to do with the question! Get a clue you moron and shovel it someplace else, to no longer little ladies that want sound advice. How do you correlate her having intercourse together with her adulthood point, maximum probably it’s her boy chum pushing her. Are you some style of psychic ? No, didn’t think of so. It’s human beings such as you who sell teenager intercourse fool! playstation : I study your comprehensive rant and you're saying this is okay to kill through fact the fetus isn't seen? the two have been you at one element and nonetheless aren’t. The atom isn't seen yet watch what happens once you wreck one. You weigh greater then the 40 lbs of plutonium utilized in "Little Boy" even though it made a good better boost then you definitely EVER will. in case you think of the international is over populated why are you having little ones? Kill your self and do away with one ineffective guy or woman from the earth. PLEASE!!!

Answer 5

Don't rely on symptoms to tell if you are pregnant. Remember that stress can do a lot of bad things to your body, like making you feel sick or hot, it can even make your periods shorter or absent. Stress can even trick you into thinking you're pregnant when you're not, and I know this, because I've done it before.. It sounds like you are stressing out about this, so that may very well be what is going on with your body.

However, the only real way of determining this is to use a pregnancy test from the store or the doctor. If you don't want to talk to your parents about this, it would probably be easier for you to go out to the store and get a pregnancy test.

And, of course, after realizing what risk you have placed yourself in, I hope you insist upon using some form of protection in the future, preferably a condom since it protects against STDs. The pull-out method is not a good method for a guy to use, since it doesn't fully protect against pregnancy either (as previous poster mentioned, there's pre-ejaculate), and it requires a lot of mental discipline for a guy to pull out before ejaculating too, so if he failed to one time, it probably wasn't on purpose. The next time a guy "offers" to pull out, tell him that it wouldn't make much sense to pull out when he has a condom on, but hey, whatever suits him...lol! Honestly, he just needs to start buying them from now on, and if he still tries without it, it's time to start a fight with him... It's that important, girl!!

You say your boyfriend is stable for kids, and I want to address that. He's having unprotected sex with a 16 year old girl who doesn't want to be pregnant. No, he's not stable for children. He can't even properly handle his relationship with you.

And about the abortion thing, if it ever came to that... That's your choice. I won't go into a rambling about the morality of it, because I know it's a difficult decision to make. You have to think about what you want out of your life, whether it's a baby or not, and you will be the one who lives with that decision, so think about if you would feel guilty or not. Everybody else is just telling you how they would feel, but they don't know how you will feel. You need to do your own soul searching.

Well, if I were going to give my opinion, then I would say if you're not ready to be a parent, then don't become one. The world is not in need of more unwanted babies.

Answer 6

Okay, first of all, the pull out method does NOT work! He still drips pre-***, which can get you pregnant. with all of the symptoms you've described, it does sound like pregnancy. what you need to do first, is go to the planned parenthood clinic, or your local health department. They will be able to give you a free pregnancy test. If you are not pregnant, you will need to get on birth control. they will be able to give you a free perscription. if you are pregnant, what you do not want to do is have an abortion. abortions can kill you, and if you want children in the future, it will most likely kill them at birth. if you can't keep the baby, then think about adoption. if you go type lds family services adoption into any search engine, you will find their website and be able to have an open adoption.

Answer 7

Get definitive results with a pregnancy test and then decide what you should do. Consider adoption rather than abortion.

You should know better than to have unprotected sex. It takes two to tango, and if you are pregnant, you are just as responsible as your boyfriend is. Don't lay the blame totally on him. If you know you aren't ready for a kid, then use birth control.

Answer 8

well if u are not ready for children quit having sex. that is the problem there are too many mistakes and accident's, all you young kids acting grown up but not taking on responsibility.

Abortion is WRONG

If you don't want any baby;s than stop doing what makes them!!!!!!!!!!

I WILL ANSWER SOMEBODY'S STUPID COMMENT----
There is a big difference in married couples and kids just sleeping together.
Married couples take vows we are prepared to except what this world deals us.
Kids just fooling around, that is the last thing on their mind, most of them don't finish high school, get on welfare, or work a low paying job that barely gets them by. And if they do get an ABORTION a lot of times they grow up HATEING THEIRSELFS.
Not to mention the most of the kids grow up without dads.

So yes my point is if you don't want kids then quite having sex or GROW UP AND EXCEPT WHAT U HAVE MADE!!!!!!!!

It is DISGUSTING that people still make excuses for people just sleeping around. Because there a too many abortions , people on welfare, and to many kids without dads,
And far to many kids in the system just waiting for someone to love them.

Common Sense people , open your eyes and look around!!!!!!!

BY THE WAY WHO IS TALKING ABOUT RAPE ---- THAT IS A WHOLE DIFFERENT SUBJECT

I am a woman with two little girls of my own, and I cant believe all that JUNK you wrote-----

SORRY I AM PRO-LIFE NOT PRO-STUPIDITY

Answer 9

You think HE did it on purpose..doll let me tell you..it takes TWO...count em..ONE..TWO..to TANGO! You are just as responsible as he is for the stupidity to not use protection, or be on the pill! If you are going to get dirty be ready to do the laundry! Abortion is stupid, and the worst thing you could ever do! NEVER DO THAT! Your parents didn't abort you! It's not the babies fault..it's yours! Whatever you do PLEASE don't have an abortion!! Adoption is another option! Good Luck and take care of yourself..go see a doctor!

Answer 10

This is the exact reason why you are too young to be having sex. You are not stable enough for the consequences that come along with such an act. If you, and not just your boyfriend cannot financially deal with a baby for the next 18 years, you need to think of better choices for you. You need to get to the doctor for a pregnancy test, and then get prenatal counseling. There are other options available, like adoption or abortion, and after you either have the baby or abort it, you need to think seriously about birth control, because abortion is not a method of birth control, and it can cause some serious damage to women who keep getting them. These women who use it as birth control, run the risk of never being able to have children again, even after they've married, and are financially and mentally stable to have a child. I wish I could, but I can't tell you to stop having sex til you're much older, because it looks like Pandora's box is already open on that one, but you do need to look at some of the diseases that you may already have been at risk for: like Chlamydia, Gonorreah, Crabs, and AIDS, to name a few. Adoption is another option open to you if you are pregnant. Since your parents are still responsible for you, you need to talk to them before you make any decision. You are still their child, even though you think you're grown just because you had sex. Then seriously think of changing your risky lifestyle before you end up dead. You're running way too fast, and you need to slow down.

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OK, Scarlett Rose, First I must commend you on half of your post. Against PRO LIFE. You are right. Pro Choice is best for the women who are abused by rape, fathers, brothers, uncles, mom's boyfriend or husband etc...
It would be horrific for a woman to have to bear a child of that union.
However, the first part of your post speaking on the pleasures of sex? Um...she's 16. She should be a virgin at least until she's out of her parents house, that's just plain respect. If a child under 18 is having sex, chances are that they don't have a job, and don't have a pot to piss in, nor a window to throw it out of, as my grandfather used to say. In a perfect world, sex, and the pleasures therein would be reserved for a stable marriage. But as we all know, we live no where near perfect, so the next best thing is to try to teach our kids to make better choices about life. Sex is one of them. Forget pleasure! Unprotected sex can kill you!!! They need to know that these days, before they go around experimenting. And from the way that she worded this post, it sounds like she needs to spend more time sitting up in school, than laying on her back. She needs to learn how to make safe choices for herself, so that one day, she can even be a halfway decent mother to someone else.
And about there is no God? Alright, if you believe that you and your child evolved from monkeys and apes, and that they just magically appeared on an already made Earth, that also magically appeared, that's on you. But don't try to say that God doesn't exist because you have no evidence, because actually you do. Is that a picture of your baby? Take a look at her. Do you think she looks like an ape? or Do you think that she must have been created by a supreme being? Do you think that she is beautiful? OK then. I think you have all the evidence you need.

Anyway, I'm off my soapbox. You did hit the nail on the head about abortion though.
Pro Choice doesn't mean Pro Abortion. It's the respect given to a woman to make a decision that is best for her and her unborn child. A decision that she can live with, and no one else. Sometimes that decision is to abort, and sometimes it's not. I chose not to abort 3 times, but I miscarried twins anyway. The hospital still called it a spontaneous abortion of two. I wonder if the pro lifers call that murder too?