2006-07-29 19:11:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
If you feel that you can provide her with a safe and loving environment, then of course raise her there. But if if there is ANY risk what so ever of her being exposed to sex, drugs or any other harmful thing, then no. Good Luck. I am sure you will figure this out!
2006-07-29 19:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should raise her there. Since you are currently residing there, where else would you raise her?
There's nothing wrong with her being raised there as long as she is not exposed to sex directly.
Obviously there will be rooms where you can take your daughter to not be around sex.
I suggest you only keep her at the bunny ranch for a few years. Don't wait untill she is a teenager when she'll actually understand what's going on. If she understands that you are a prostitute, and that she is living in a whore house, she might not be able to handle it. Maybe you should move out when she's around 5, or 6; that should give you time to clear your life up, and adjust your life according to your new baby girl.
Good luck, and congratulations!
2006-07-30 03:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every parent puts their child into a situation that the child cannot control. Some kids are raised in a strict religious environment which other people would consider psychologically dangerous. Other children are raised in racially-segregated environments. Other children are raised to believe absolutely that their eternal souls will suffer endless torture if they masturbate. Other children are raised in war zones among ruins. Other children are raised by idiots or abusive parents.
The point is, everyone puts their child into their own world, and whichever world it is, somebody will object. No matter which childhood you provide your girl with, somebody, somewhere, will believe it isn't good enough. You make your own decisions and trust your own judgements. If you can teach her pride, industry, self-respect, the love of learning, independence, compassion, inner strength and generosity where you are, then go ahead. It's your life, it's your child. Do your best for her, and don't bother what anyone else tells you to do. Your life, and her life, are what matter.
2006-07-30 02:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is right to raise a baby girl in a protitute ranch. I am not sure whether you like doing what you are doing but I am sure that you should not be teaching such a small child that this is the right thing to do. I am going to tell you that no matter what anyone on here says, you are her parent and it is cmpletely up to you on where to raise your child. I hope you will choose what works best for you and your situation. Good luck.
2006-07-30 02:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Monkeygirlwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. You don't need to have your daughter there. There are to many per**** men in the world as it is. You need to get out of that kind of work and raise her in a safe environment. If you don't want to leave, then take her to her Grand Parents or someone in your family who will be safe for her to be around. Then when you are ready you can leave there and go home to your daughter. And Prostituting should never be legal.
2006-08-02 20:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by ancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice to raise your children where you want, but, these days, you can not. Child Protection Services would not allow you raise your baby in your job environment. Even though you are a legal professional, they will not see it that way. They will see that a child is being raised in an environment that can cause emotional, and physical harm. They will see that your child will be exposed to sexual acts, language, and an assortment of men, who could very well take advantage of the child.
I am very sorry to tell you this, but I know how CPS works. I would raise my child anywhere I wanted, if it weren't for them! (CPS)
2006-07-30 03:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by ~^~RuStIc~^~ReG~^~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your daughter to have a good life and be good exposed to good morals (not bashing your occupation), then you shouldn't raise her there!! It's not a good environment for a child, worse a girl child being raised in an environment where her mother and other women have sex, have adult conversations, adult-themed parties!
Just think of your situation, suppose you are working there because you don't have a proper education, would you want her to be brought up like that, because her mother did it?
2006-07-30 02:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I am sure you would want to provide your daughter with a better life than one living among prostitutes could give. Even though you may be a moral person, you can't expect that from everyone there.
2006-07-30 02:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by skip_2015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should raise your child but not in that type of environment. I think you make enough money for you to get your own apartment and hire a overnight babysitter to come in while you do your "money making activities". But since you're looking for opinions then I wouldn't do that. I would like forr my child to brought up in a more productive environment because sooner or later the child is going to start asking questions and you have to tell that child the truth or thry will be confused when someone else does.
2006-07-30 02:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Niinnaa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off congradulations on your new little girl, but it probably wouldnt be a good idea to raise a baby around that much sex, unless you want her to grow up and become a prostitute herself,
Good Luck!!
2006-07-30 02:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Amelia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋