My boyfriend and I have been trying for almost 9 months and still no luck. Sometimes I cry when I find out that we have not succeeded...again:( I have to wait though, I am due to get my period august 7th which seems like an eternity away. I go through this every month but this month seems to have me going really crazy, I know I just have to be patient but I can't, I wanna know now LOL. Any suggestions on how to keep my mind off of it? Advice from ladies who have gone through or are going through the same thing will be extra appreciated:)
2006-07-29 19:06:47 · 9 answers · asked by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I know exactly how you feel I cry about it too! Its really hard we have been trying for 1 1/2. My doctor says I am perfectly healthy. I try to keep my mind off of it but its hard especially when it seems like pregnant woman are all you see! Keep up hope it will happen! If you want someone to talk to email me!! olivia_andrew69@yahoo.com! Good Luck!
2006-07-31 07:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by olivia_andrew69 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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I want a baby so bad?
My boyfriend and I have been trying for almost 9 months and still no luck. Sometimes I cry when I find out that we have not succeeded...again:( I have to wait though, I am due to get my period august 7th which seems like an eternity away. I go through this every month but this month seems to...
2015-08-04 10:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Marcellina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently had a miscarriage and then had to have a DNC because my baby didn't pass naturally. Now my bf and I are trying again. the best advice i think i could give you is to know when you ovulate and have sex on that day the day before and the day after to increase your chances. as far as keeping your mind of of it.....you need to relax. don't let stress be apart of your life right now. the more relaxed and stress free your are the better your chances will become. I wish you the best in luck with your plans of having a baby...let it come on it's own...don't force it.
2006-07-29 19:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I seen some of the answers on here all me and my husband can say is HA HA ! We tried praying that didn't work. T hen we gave up on trying so hard because we were told to calm down and let it come natrually that didn't work. The pillow under the butt thing it didn't work. We have been trying way over 4 years and nothing at all. Nothing has worked for us. So now we are looking to adopt a baby because we are getting sick of all the stuff people tell us to do and it will work when in actuality it doesn't work. We even kept track of my periods on a calendar and we used every kind of fertility monitor there is to buy we have done it all. So in my opinion you should try some more but if nothing happens think about adopting a baby.
2006-07-30 07:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by kitten16_18 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
forget about wanting to have a baby and then it will happen . Have you tried having him wear loose boxers and maybe you should go and buy a ovulating kit at the store that helps when trying to concieve and take your temperature too because when you hit your peek anything is possible. Also try a candle light dinner and a warm bubble bath and lots of sex and schedules rhese at least once or twice a week.
2006-07-29 20:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by APRIL K 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
just relax, I know what you mean and it is not easy to relax when you are trying, I had the same thing , my husband and I tired for 9-10 months before I get pregnant, It happened as soon as I relaxed and start thinking , what ever.....
and believe me there are so many other things after pregnancy too, like now I have to do amnio which scares me ...so save your worries for later on
good luck
2006-07-29 19:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to see your doctor and go through fertility testing to find out if anything is preventing you from conceiving.
2006-07-29 19:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by mergirl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK i know this will be hard it was for me but it helped.
resign yourself to wait. (don't do anything to prevent it thou.) and just have sex for fun.
my hubby and i tried for almost 2 years the month we gave up and RELAXED about it I got pregnant.
Good luck.
2006-07-29 19:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by naightengale 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it will happen sooner or later, all you have to do is be patient, keep trying and enjoy it while it last.....then you'll find out the good news....
2006-07-29 19:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by JTB 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are spiritual or have the faith of what the Lord can do....but turn it over to God.....Pray on it and let it go He will work it out....but on another note you should look into purchasing a Ovulation test.. it will tell you your most fertile days....Good Luck !!:)
2006-07-30 04:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Harlem 2 · 7⤊ 6⤋