i am single mom with a young son,and i have a bf much older than i am, he is married with adult kids, we've lived together for 3 years, get alone very well and i love him dearly, want to go forever with him. but he will go back to his wife(lives in another country) every half a year for holiday, and each time he told me this would be the last time. I don't know if i should put up with this or should just step out the relationship.
2006-07-29 19:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by Irine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is time for you to move on. You've been a chump for much too long.
2006-07-29 19:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
LOL why should he leave her? He has you in one country and her in another and he has gone every 6 months for 3 years and you haven't done a darn thing about it yet. He obviously isn't done with it and probably never will be. If you don't want to put up with it then obviously you step out. It takes about 20 seconds to end a relationship, NOT 3 years.
2006-07-29 19:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hence the word "wife" ...after 3 years he proably wont leave her. Only YOU can decide what you want to do. You should give him an altimatium. Tell him that if he goes again, then its over between you. If you really love him ,and he really loves you, maybe you can work something out. Listen to you heart, but also follow your mind!! Everyone deserves to be happy, and if you are not than you should decide to do something about it, so be happy. Good Luck!!
2006-07-29 19:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by crazibunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you need to kick him to the curb, he will not divorce his wife that lives in another country, , you know that you need to find someone else, and you know that he is cheating on his wife , don't you feel bad about that ? cause one day his wife just might surprise him and you with a visit, and I really don't think that you are prepared for that , don't pretend that everything is hunky Dorey
cause as long as he is still married , you really don't have a commitment , or trust ,,, good luck...
2006-07-29 19:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just step out of the relationship
2006-07-29 19:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he already made up his mind not to commit to you if you have dealt with this three years already. his situation is conducive to being able to do as he pleases, his wife lives in a different country. don't marry someone who cheats on their wife.
2006-07-29 19:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Cecelia R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surely you know the answer to this question. Did you read it back to yourself? Yes, of course you should run like hell from this joker.
2006-07-29 19:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should leave him and come to me you sound like a nice lady and your boy friend doesnt know how luckley he is to have you he is a idit.why dont you come and live with me you sound like you are really nice i am also a single dad and i wouldnt play games with you like your boy friend does
2006-07-29 19:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
step out of the relationship i mesn he probaly lying to you right now
2006-07-29 19:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In another country???? However did you meet this guy?
2006-07-29 19:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋