I am a fem lesbian and I like fems and I have no idea how to approach another girl. There's really no sure way to tell if a girl might be interested (unless they have on rainbow apparel, and I could still be wrong then.)
2006-07-29 18:53:27 · 9 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've noticed that a lot of people have answered with answers on "how to tell if a girl is gay?", which I really didn't ask(I just made a comment that there was no way to tell. I know this because the general public assumes me to be straight due to the way I dress). What I asked was "how to approach another gir?"
2006-07-30 07:21:25 · update #1
Femme lesbians looks like every other feminine woman. Hence, the name femme. You know this but lots who read or weigh in here don't. And also as you know, very few lesbians go out "recruiting." It's unfortunate that straights and bi-curious post about what they don't know.
Anyway, talk to her some, get a sense of who she is. Bring up something LGBT or simply tell her your a lesbian. See how she responds. From there, you'll be able to figure out where she may or may not want to go.
2006-07-29 19:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alex62 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
I'm afraid you ask the wrong question. A femme is supposed to be with an homme and not another femme. That, or nothing at all.
Homosexuality is an abomination in god's eyes and will bring you no luck.
2006-07-30 11:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the signs aren't too hard to tell. Look at their fingers if there middle finger is longer then the rest of their fingers they say thats how you can tell if a person's gay. Also, look at the way women dress. If a girl is wearing jeans with high heels then she's straight. Oh yea, eye contact is a big thing too. Look them in the eyes and smile. I have real good gaydar and can notice even gay women that appear to be straight. It takes a while to get it but for some its quicker. I've known since I was born pretty much. Good Luck!
2006-07-29 18:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really cannot know for use. Many bi or lesbian girls look like any other stright girl because they are. Having "them" look a way would be a sterotype. And that jeans and high heels thing isn't true. I know. You will just have to try eye contact and when you get it then go up to her and start talking. Ask about GLBTQ issues or ask about her boyfriend (backfires on single and bi girls but it's something) and so on. You just have to try if you want to date femme girls and your not at a lesbian/bi club or something.
2006-07-30 02:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard being a femme who is attracted to femme women... you have to get used to rejection by the straight girls ;-)
2006-07-29 19:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by ziz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his way Stalin was another Hitler, and Stalin lasted longer in power, and died of old age, still in power. Stalin was in charge of Soviet Russia, a very powerful nation. Since that time there have been several dictators in charge of nations which have had wide influence, e.g.Ghaddafi in Libya (small nation by population, but big influence because of oil), Mao Tse Tung in China and Saddam Hussein in Iraq (oil, again, and look at the chaos in Iraq since he was deposed). Nobody can predict the future, but I would not be surprised to find a dictator in a similar position to Hitler at some time.
2016-03-16 08:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find a woman attractive just let her know. I am a soft stud and I love fem women. I never know a woman's preference in gender but I don't care I just compliment them and take it from there. I have never had a woman turn me down. I have dealt with more "curious" women than lesbians. In my mind every woman wants to know what it feels like to be with another woman.
2006-07-30 02:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question.huh!
but its not really easy to approach femme beacuse not all of them are open minded.
so better not try..
2006-07-29 20:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by bebs03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(ooohhhh lipstick lesbians I like that) but anyways if your gay u should be able to tell if someone is gay or not but if not just go for it all they can say is no there not you can do it and i promise one day u can just look at someone and tell if there gay or not be patient do what you gotta do till then and hey look on the bright side you might presue some one that is not but when you get done with them they may change there mind .
2006-07-29 19:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by blueeyed sexy blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ask, all they can say is noooo
2006-07-29 19:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by dads1boss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋