A friend from 22 yrs ago has found me about 5 months ago. I knew then he had a crush on me and he says he still does and has thought of me off and on through the years. I always thought of him as a friend till now. Should I see him and see how it goes? I really do like him.
2006-07-29 18:44:38 · 10 answers · asked by michelle b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well the friend lives in Cali and I live in Missouri, so the only contact is threw computer. We have been talking for 5 months on computer. So no contact in person. I will wait till the divorce papers are signed of course. My husband has a cruch on his secretary at his work and he talks to her everyday. Her birthday was Friday and he got her a necklace. All I do is talk to my friend and friends online.
2006-07-29 19:19:48 · update #1
I remember my Uncle and Aunt has plm with Their marriage all my cousin are growing up. Everything change after Aptoed Girl from South American. Remember they all have 6 boys no girls first time they have.
My Aunt lost her mind and told her Daughter watch out for Uncle who might want to touch you wrong way. My Uncle loveable person in the world. But found that my Aunt was sexual rape from her father.
My uncle had to end it marriage. and He has been contact one of the girl once knew in High School. and She has plm with her husband too. and Both are getting Divorced. Good thing they got married and I never ever see my Uncle the happiest man in the world.
I know that you and guy that really like you thinking of you off and on. It worth just follow your heart, if your heart beat beatting so fast mean true love. Remember talk all those years haven't seen each other long time. Remember take it slow, reason why? Because if you both ever talk about getting married and remember to talk about alot things how to make this marriage work?
It worth to talk about it. If not then your marriage will not last long. My wife and I talk so much before we got married and we got married and it was the best thing we ever talk. We still do talk about children future and stuff like that smiling. and We been married for 9 years and 2 beautiful children, working on 3rd one.
Wish you both best luck and remember be open mind and it will take you forever to the end down to life. smiling
2006-07-29 18:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you and your present husband are legally divorced, you are considered married. Your mutual verbal divorce agreement doesn't mean "squat" if your husband discovers you have been "seeing" someone else, no matter how innocent your meetings may have been. Tell your "friend" that if he wants to see you, he will have to wait until your divorce has been settled.
2006-07-29 19:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Poots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no harm there keep in mind 22 years ago he want look the same unless he has sent you a up date photo dont get your hopes up good luck on the out come
2006-07-30 06:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing as how you really like him, i would at least give it a try, maybe start things off slowly. after all you are coming out of a divorce. don't rush into anything too quickly!
Best of luck!
2006-07-29 18:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until the divorce is settled and then talk to your friend. He will respect you more for waiting.
2006-07-29 18:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by truckermama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never live your life in regret... always take chances because you'll never know how things will turn out... Short and simple
2006-07-29 19:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to move forward in life, going backwards may cause you to stumble. I'm sure your reason for not dating him has not and will not change. be his friend but don't jump into another mistake.
2006-07-29 19:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by myamoreterno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sure why not. Good luck to you : )
2006-07-29 18:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well go for it.
2006-07-29 18:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's over...go for it!!! Take it slow, though!!!
2006-07-29 19:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by bigchef_46360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋