What Should I DO?

Question

I have loved this girl from the sixth grade, and have never been anything more than any random person to her. we talk every once in a while on AIM. but never about anything important. I really like this girl. but she dosent know it. and im afraid to tell her. I dont know what se will say. She Is the Most important thing to me. I really need to do something. What should I do?
I dont even know what to say, we arent really, friends, i mean i have never hung out with her anywhere but at school
I dont know what i could say. She dosent even have a clue that I like her. I mean, i practically melt when i see a picture of her. I dont know if i could ask her to do something. Right now the only contact i have of her is AIM, Its Summer, so i dont see her on a daily basis. What Should I DO? Someone Please Help me.

Answer 1

Ask her to go to a movie some time. You could go with a group of your friends and see how it works out.
I am assuming you live in the same area.

Answer 2

You have to tell her.. you never want want to live your life never knowing what the other truly feels. It may be quite possible that she has some sort of feelings for you too... the worst thing that could happen is rejection, but you'll get over it... and at least you know where you stand in her life... If you don't say anything you'll regret it every day of your life, she maybe the one that will turns your world upside down and you could quite possibly have a true relationship with this women...
I say that you need to tell her how you feel asap.. when your on AIM ask her out on a date or something, don't really go into how your feeling about her just yet... go on the date and if things are going good, ask her on another date (be yourself) and tell her how you've felt about her... just be yourself on this date and take things one day at a time.. don't throw all of your feelings out there and scare her away... cuz like you said you're not really "friends" with her, so don't let her know all of how your feelings... but i guess thats my best advice to you... Good LUCK!

Answer 3

Here's what you do. First, try the easy approach. You talk on AIM right? Well, drop subtle hints. Fish a little bit and see what she says. You never know, she may have the same feelings and thinks you don't realize you exist. You may even try telling her the same story you put on here and see what kinda advice she gives you and then try it. Once you've established a better communication avenue, jump right in and ask her to a movie. Find out what kind of movies she likes or one she's been wanting to see and ask her to that one. Don't forget to include dinner somewhere. You might want to leave McDonald's off the choice list. Leave it up to her to decide so she'll feel comfortable. If she doesn't want to decide, be the man and decide for the two of you. Try hooking her friend up with one of yours so you can double. It will help in making her feel comfortable also. Hope it works out for you. [e-mail]

Answer 4

1. You just tell her how you feel!
2. You make it so you are around her more,but not in a stalker way and after a while you may get some idea how she feels about you!
3. Say something to a mutual friend like Sharron is a really sweet girl or isn't Sharron just the cutest thing!
4. Girls like guys who listen to them, and pay attention to them!
5. Take some of the same classes she's taking.
Good luck! You never know she may be crushing on you too!

Answer 5

I agree with Keith. She's won't be thrilled about your advances. If she hasn't shown interest in you, then you'll be setting yourself up for failure. I'm not saying you shouldn't try, but you should expect to crash hard.

Your best bet would just casually ask her over AIM if she'd like to hang out sometime. If she blows you off, count your losses and just try being a friend. DO NOT GET MAD AT HER, and do not force the issue. She is allowed to choose who she loves.

But yeah, Keith is right, you have a caring inside you, save it for someone who will care about you the same way, don't throw it away on lust or infactuation. Because once that caring additude gets burned, it won't be easy to regain.

Answer 6

get closer to her as a friend. talk to her more often and become really good friends with her. be patient though, this might take awhile. if you can, try not to base your whole relationship with her arouned AIM conversations because it wont work out. phone calls might work better and you don't have to worry about looking at her. besides, girls love talking on the phone. be careful not to come off too obsessive though. summer is a good time to start because theres usually alot more drama during the school year. and you never know, she might secretly like you back. but remember don't rush anything or force anything.
don't just randomly tell her you like her, that might scare her away, wait for a really good moment. anyways, good luck!

Answer 7

The traditional school of thought is that you tell her how you feel, however if she chats with you and hasn't shown any increased interest than she's not interested. Enjoy caring about her from afar until you meet someone who shares your feelings. The trick in life is finding someone who feels the same as you.

Answer 8

honey you should run for the hills and thank God that she hasn't shown interest because when she does, this could be a soap opera.One that I'd personally like to see. I'm tired of the old ones!

Answer 9

hi this is coca.girl
first you have to talk to her other then the school things . and by this time you must know what her likes and dislikes.
well i also had a problum and one of my friend gave me an e-mail address of a love doctor the doctor helped me you can also have the address its [e-mail].

Answer 10

Take a risk and tell her please! You never know she could be having the same feelings as you and is tooo scared to tell you! Take a chance and if it isn't meant to be then thats ok there will be plenty more woman for you!