See I was ya know getting off when having sex with my man.Now I'm not.I dont know whats wrong.Which I did start getting bored with it a couple of months ago.I dont know whats wrong or what to do.Could someone pleas help me?
2006-07-29 18:43:51 · 13 answers · asked by Kristy V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Quit the drugs.
2006-07-29 18:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be a number of things. POT will sometimes dull the mood for people sometimes it wont. If you are on any kind of anxiety meds. those will hinder your sexual drive also. But it sounds like you are bored with him maybe he just needs you to give him a little advice on what might turn you on....example: nibbling, biting, pulling of the hair, talking dirty....there are so many different things that can turn a person on...site.....smell.....touch....my personal favorite sound....play around a little with him he will love ya for it....be experimental, guys love that.
2006-07-29 18:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how a sexual encounter with him goes. Is something missing? Has the foreplay gotten shorter? Has the length of the session shortened? Is there less passion? Is your life more stressful? Do you have other things on your mind? All of these things can affect one's ability to climax.
2006-07-29 18:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by tcos...a guy with questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably guessing you don't initiate either, huh? Well, if you're not getting off, then you need to get your head in the game. If he's pounding you into the bed/wall and you don't even squeek, then you need more than somne spice in your relationship. I bet he's having some fun, though. did you ever think about that?
2006-07-29 18:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a girl, I'll admit that right now! But it could be that you've just gotten used to your man doing things the way he does. Talk to him, and ask him to do things a little different or more spontanious. This ought to fix your problem.
2006-07-29 18:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by ichbinreizvoll2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it usually same thing happened to me I think we get too comfortable and it starts to ruin the fun. maybe you should try some new routines or move outside of the bedroom that might help. Good luck
2006-07-29 18:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could spice it up abit you know let him watch you masterbate use a toy role play try something new if you like it soft get alittle rough and last but not least try some place new.
2006-07-29 18:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Angel & QueensKnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to spice things up. I did the same thing after my daughter was born, we went to the sex shop and got vibrators and other toys, they worked really good. Its true what they say if you dont use it you will lose it.
2006-07-29 18:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girl do it like everyday so i think i might could help u out. how long do u do it for we do it like 10 mins and she gets off. so ur either not doing it long enough or his dick is to small to satisfy ur needs. thats my opinion
2006-07-29 18:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by cumminsman1994 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to break up, ya know
2006-07-29 18:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by BidDogARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRFf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋