Me and my bf have known each other for while now and now we live together. But his ex is still calling him and emailing him. i want to talk to her without her knowin its me, cuz my bf doesnt want me talkin to her cuz she is a crazy bytch...she will come and try something to hurt me...so does anyone know how i can speak to her? and wat should i say for her to stop wat she is doin ...cuz its pissin me off!!!
2006-07-29 18:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ok i live with my bf in VA and the crazy bytch lives in Pennsylvania....so i doubt they are having something goin on.
And plus he hates her guts cuz she treated him like crap!!...and this I know!..cuz i was friends with him when they were goin out.
So NO im not being played!
2006-07-29 18:53:13 · update #1
OK....he hasnt talked to her since last year. She is the one that calls him but he never picks up the phone. And she emails him to...and found him on myspace. but i deleted her A....
2006-07-29 18:55:06 · update #2
ok Palador...what did i just explain here....WE live in South of Virginia....ok.....SHE lives in Penn state....now thats like 8 hours away....i know wat happend why they broke up cuz me and my bf have no problem of communicating....MY ONLY QUESTION WAS...how can i speak to her....dont tell me my bf is cheatin on me cuz i know he aint! OK!!.....And yea ur right she probably is still pressed over my bf...but i dont give a rats A....
I know why they split, how long they were 2gether, and YES they have split totally! and dont call me a hoe!
Y cant i hate her...u must b joking right...she is harassing us!...and she knows my man got me and she still sending him messages.
and no they dont meet without my knowledge!
and plz dont tell me he is gonna lose interest in me if we dont sleep together a number of times?..u dont know us!
2006-07-29 19:20:15 · update #3
If I was screwin 2 chicks, that's the same thing I'd tell one of em... yer gettin' played!
2006-07-29 18:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by rpalm82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear girl, don't you think this situation has arisen because of confusion created by you very own boy friend ?
if she is his ex, as you say, find out from him, as well as sources, why did they split, how long they were staying together, if at all,and what exactly hapened ? it's quite possible, she still loves him, may be he also is meeting her secretly, sleeping with her, hoe do you know, they have split totally ?
you seem to be secretly afraid of her, that she might cause you harm, why ? it's not your fault, that he stays with you, leaving her ?
inany case, it's of no use, calling her names, or hating her, try and understand her psychology also. if you friend does not want you to talk to her, and you also want to do it secretly, that is not possible !
i suggest, you talk to him first, get the facts straight, tell him clearly, you are getting disturbed over this, and firmly ask him to settle the issue, once for all. and for that, he has to tell that girl clearly, not to drop in, or e-mail, and close this chapter.
take help of a pvt. detective if need may be, to find out, whether these two still meet, without your knowledge !
if you really like him, don't fight with him, or her, but resolve the issue amicably, not complicating it.
do you propose to marry this guy ? better decide in a stipulated time-span, boys are bound to lose interest, once they have slept enough no. of times, without any obligation, or committment, for that matter !
2006-07-29 19:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by palador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she still talking to him? Most importantly why is he still talking to her? I would find the answers to these questions before I tried anything else. Other than that, if you have her e-mail address, you can go to the library or use some other computer and create an e-mail she doesn't know about and e-mail her, send her a message on myspace, chat with her if she goes to chat rooms, or send a post in a group she belongs to.
2006-07-29 18:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the number and with in a year move.
2006-07-29 18:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like your boyfriend is respecting you...you should talk to him and let him know that it bothers you. most likely he'll say nothing is going on and that you can't make him NOT be friends with her...but maybe you can come up with some kind of solution. but first, talk to him about it.
2006-07-29 18:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by kaaaahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how u feel about the ex psycho girlfriend. maybe he doesn't want you to talk to her because they have something going on still.and he figured that if he told you that she was crazy that maybe you would be scared to contact her? just a guess?
2006-07-29 18:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds bitchy but what i would do i would either type up a letter or email using like your boyfriends email or wahtever and just tell her to back off. or try talking to you bf
2006-07-29 18:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Keeping_Real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU shouldnt have to do anything your b/f should cut the ties w her, especially if shes as crazy as he says, unless he has something going w her he shouldnt have aproblem w this!!!
2006-07-29 18:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by *♥* ♥* FaeGoddess*♥*♥* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to declare something snarky to her, even though it could be greater advantageous to have your bf quit taking to that chick/take her off his facebook stuff. in the event that they are nonetheless speaking like that, they are in all probability nonetheless into one yet another ...
2016-10-01 06:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋