2006-07-29 18:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to bring the relationship back to the way it was when you first starting seeing each other. Go back to when it was fun and just dating. Go on romantic dates together again and spark up the old chemistry that was in the beginning. Just try to remember how you started out and all the sweet things both of you used to do when you first got together.
2006-07-29 18:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by texanmedic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man this is a good question. I have been trying to figure it out for the past 5 years now. I have been with my man for 7 years and I feel like a dope fein because I am still with him after all this **** he has done to me and it seems as if I am chasing the same high I used to have when we first met and the first 2 years of our relationship. Wow, I will look back to see what others have said to U. Good Luck for U and Me!
2006-07-30 01:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you both don't changed. It will always make it the spark both relationship like it was when both first got together.
Every day get up in the morning telling how much I love her, calling her during lunch, and Coming home from work she pick up kids and come home knowing that I tell my kids how much I love them every morning and coming home. Seeing my wife made my heart beat just like always first met.
Just like a normal couple have ups and downs and we do really love eachother so much .... smiling.
2006-07-30 02:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can go back to thinking about what interested you in your spouse/fiance/partner, in the first place? What kinds of things do you have or did you have in common then? What did you do together? What made you laugh and have a good time with one another? What are some new hobbies or interests that you can share with one another? Stuff like this can rekindle a relationship. Even just talking about what you've done together, places you have gone to, or can go back to, and romancing one another like you did when you first met..............it can happen, it works! :) Good luck!
2006-07-30 01:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is impossible to take it back to what it once was...... you both have grown and changed...... you can however get the spark back....... take something simple the 2 of you like to do together..... and make it a part of your lives.... laugh more, have more fun, spend time on ROMANCE and nuturing what is there...... water the flower and watch it grow....... talk more, and listen more..... see what she or he is doing ..... it is the simple and small things that you can grasp hold of and help to grow into more bigger and better things that will make that connection to the past.......... God bless
2006-07-30 01:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down the memory lanes of when u met each other. Visit the places that u had gone in ur romantic days.
If u have written letters to each other and preserved them till now, open them and read it to each other.
Avoid any types of arguments and submit oneself to the spouse.
2006-07-30 01:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by jadu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some books, especially the one "For You Both" by Lonnie Barbach, THE sex therapist in the country today. Cheap on Amazon.com in paperback. It could be at your house by Wednesday, and worth every damn dime.
2006-07-30 01:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sparkie, once the fire has gone out start another with new matches!
2006-07-30 13:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by johnnybgoodpromise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never happen. The only thing you can do is have nookie like rabbits like when you first started to do it.
2006-07-30 01:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Pappa Poopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-30 01:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋