2006-07-29 18:03:00 · 17 answers · asked by krash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They can, and have. It takes alot of time, alot. They should consider counseling as well. There also needs to be a reason why they cheated, so that needs to come out in the open and be addressed.
The vheater needs to kept on a short lease, going ot with only the spouse.
But, before it comes to that, if ther is a problem or even the HINT of a problem, address it NOW, before that happens.
get counseling, or any form of help, but do something before it gets out of hand.
The worse thing a marriage can suffer is a loss of communication. When tht happens, you've lost a strong-hold and it will slip away.
I cheated on my wife. I ruined her life and my own. I am ashamed for what i have done.
I wish to God, Ikne thhis advise a year ago.
WORK ON THINGS, AND NEVER STOP!!!
2006-07-29 18:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mike B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Real men don't cheat. Cheatings are only for wussies. If I cheat on my love one, she won't have to worry about forgiving me. Because I will never forgiving myself before it's her turn.
2006-07-30 06:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the people involved, the number of times, the attitude of the cheater, the willingness of the cheated. Although you may be forgiven it will NEVER be forgotten and will change things without a doubt and permanently.
2006-07-30 01:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to forgive if you cheated on loved one? I don't understand at all? I am married to my wife for 9 years and 2 beautiful small children. If I did cheating before we married I won't want to be married because knowing will happen during married.
Why people want to cheat on loved one? To me seem that is the easiest answer and solved their own plm. But It not, you are hurting Loved one and Child, Children. My wife said if I ever Cheating on her She will never ever not in her life to forgive me. She told me before I got married, I do believe that I do take this marriage serious and work it out no easy way out of it.
It took me 5 years to have her in my life after I broke up with her. For being so nice to me, It was the biggest mistake ever made. and I work very hard 5 years to have her see me one more time If we don't find anything spark or love then we know the answer. But when we first saw each other first time. We truly in loved met in June of 97 and got married Oct. 97 and been 9 years and I know that I wouldn't want to cheat to my wife it took me that long to have her in my life for 5 full years.
I Love her so much even a day that made me mad but Knowing that I wouldn't be mad forever. She something I dream having her back in my life. I know marriage is a very hard and making this work out great. So, I have no reason for cheating on her and same with her.
If you already cheating girlfriend or Boyfriend before. Before you get married make sure you know that she or he is worth and put up with her or him. If not then don't get married because you in love so much can't live without each other. But something is missing is that do you both talk about what best for marriage and what if we can't make love anymore do we contiune be in love? what best for our child or children? what if my love stop feelings for you? Or get in fight how you both going to solve it? cheating on loved one? There are more so much more like learning in school same thing learning in Marriage. Pls. think and talked about alot of things.
That how my marriage and we have talk about love and we have some up and downs and children to look out for and be a responsibity Parents to our kids.
CHEATING IS NOT THE ONLY ANSWER. TALKING ABOUT IT IS THE ANSWER.
SMILING.
2006-07-30 01:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what the case may be. Now if you have an understanding mate then they will forgive you. It all has to do with trust and understanding.
2006-07-30 01:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer215oneal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they can forgive you but they'll never forget about it. And that's a hard thing to get over.
2006-07-30 01:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible if you are truly sorry and repentant for the wrong you have done..... and if the spouse is the forgiving type...... and if you do not push the spouse to go back to normal...... they have to greive the lost trust and you have to earn it back again.... it will be hard and a long process so if you think the relationship is worth fighting for, get ready for the most heart breaking fight of your life....... make sure you are heart ready....... prepare urself...... but think possitive please.... and pray a lot !!!!!! God bless
2006-07-30 01:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you do this . no. not really every time that they look at you all they see is a person who broke the most solid vow. in your marrage that is trust. no they wont forget or forgive .. . my opion?
2006-07-30 02:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not 100%. There always a little place inside that hates you forever.
2006-07-30 01:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they can forgive, would they that is much harder,my wife saysd she forgave me but still divorce me,is that forgiving think not.
2006-07-31 05:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by what is the good word? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋