2006-07-29 17:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Dasha G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, honesty is the best policy....But how long have you been dating? Have there been outside stressors that might be affecting what is going on between you two? Are YOU trying hard enough to keep things going? Relationships aren't always able to float along. Love...and deep like too.....is not easy. It's hard work, in fact!
Do you really like her? I would venture to say not, if you're willing to break it off. How long have you been dating.
I have been with my life partner....my wife...for almost 8 years. When we met, we had so many outside influences that tried to keep us apart. One of our friends kept telling me there was no way she was a lesbian, and telling her that she was just confused and didn't want to be with a woman. (he was a jealous type) There were a lot of other things going on. Everyone said we wouldn't make it and weren't compatible. But here we are.
Sometimes I think people give up to easily. I agree that if there is no spark whatsoever, then you should let her go so that you can both find the right person. But if there is still something there, why not try and fight for it? You'll never know what you might be missing if you don't give it your all.
2006-07-29 18:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? I would just be honest. =)
People may not always appreciate the truth _in the moment_, but they usually do later on. At least she'll know that you respect her enough to just be up front with her and not feed her some story or lie to her about it.
Also, she may re-think her approach. How can anyone change if nobody ever tells them what they're doing wrong?
2006-07-29 17:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn_Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her it has been fun but you have realized that it isn't what you want out of a relationship.You haven't met anyone it is just that we are just not suited,but I love u as a friend.
2006-08-02 15:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by fairie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus tell her things aint workin out. I mean yall still can b friends. Rite? So where u from? Get @ me when u work it out.
Think'a bout it...
2006-07-29 17:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you just found Granpas teeth in your bed after he spent the night.
2006-08-02 12:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Just tell her that you think it would be better if you two could just be friends. Tell her she deserves someone who will want to be with her and love her.
2006-07-29 17:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt be that hard since you just started dating her, just let her know how you feel
2006-07-29 18:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by breaking it off nicely...maybe she feels the same way.
2006-07-29 19:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start being a bit distant, and then tell her that you don't feel a connection .
2006-07-29 18:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by pretty_lesbiian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy...dont string her along...dumping her now is better than later...and she will respect ur honesty.
2006-07-30 02:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋