her frnd tells me that she does like me. i dunno what to make of it. and in the meantime, another pretty gal is making advances on me. this gal i like is not very pretty, just normal looking, but to me, she seems like an angel. but she's the only one i want...................
advice plz
i m 16
2006-07-29 17:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by **hunk** 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
oh yes i think i was in these shoes and judging by my current situation i screwed it up....i think you just have to put yourself in a position to make a move, looking back i see all these opportunities i had that she opened up and i could have tried to kiss her or something, but instead i always wanted to sit down and talk to her about it....i think girls appreciate a guy (that they like) to be agressive, take control and be brave enough to make a move.....the best girl in the world in my opinion is the one that isn't really pretty by everyone elses standards but is the only one you want, go for it, don't give up, you will regret it later....the worse thing that could happen is rejection and that will leave you in the same state you are currently in....less talk more action....
2006-07-29 17:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by bradwissmueller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient..some girls are harder to get through..but once theyre yours they could last longer than you thought...the only thing you can do right now is to make her comfortable with you as a friend first of course..eventually it will gain up her strength to build a more proper relationship with you. fight for what you believe,,its worth it. And what to do with the other girl tryin to get to u? hmmm..do u like her? which i dont think so since you said there is only one girl that u want. Well dont come up with anything that can make her think she's a go. be friends, not more,,,under certain circumstances you can explain to her that you've fallen for another one..it's better to do the right way than the easy way..
good luck!
2006-07-30 00:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by sassygurlhelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and wait for her to be ready. Don't push her into anything, that will just make her take longer. She is probably just scared to get into a relationship. Don't give up on her, it will be ok. Just show her that you are patient and caring, and that she can talk to you when she has a problem.
2006-07-30 00:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you i would pick the girl who is nice and friendly...and she is cute...the other girl...man, idk about. But this is all your decision. The girl who is nice and friendly to you and says she doesn't want nothing to do with it...she is in denial...deep denial with you...she doesn't want to tell ya the truth that she likes you...so she has her friend tell you...when her friend tells you...it tears things apart a little bit...but all I got to say that she is in denial with you.
2006-07-30 00:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time relax
2006-07-30 00:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋