2006-07-29 16:43:00 · 13 answers · asked by sirenita c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
....well...I don't think so...may be you like some things from one and other things from the other....if you LOVE someone you have no other feelings for anyone else, just that one and you give yourself entirely to that one.....too bad you can't combine both and make one perfect man...but see...that is the deal.
2006-07-29 16:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by fun 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
No, men cannot love two women. If they cheat and I mean in a married state then there is something wrong in the marriage that is not being communicated and they find someone else to be attractive in the way that their wife used to be. They begin to flirt and if the woman is willing she will flirt back and then, sex is inevitable. Remember it takes another woman to complete adultery, so just as many women cheat as men. If any man tells you it is possible it is because they are selfish and only care about thier feelings and one thing. If it is a dating issue and this is occuring, then drop him fast. Dating isn't a real commitment and either party can leave when they want. The whole reason for dating is to find out the character of the person and know if they are going to be the right match. Don't give up your body before marriage or you will never know the character of a real man. They are not worth it if all they want is your body first.
2016-03-16 08:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married or not....I think you can care for 2 men at the same time. But if you find yourself in this situation I don't believe you love either one of them.
2006-07-29 16:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can but that doesn't make it right. Marriage is supposed to be a life time commitment to one man and only one man. Marriage is monogamous, or at least it's supposed to be. It's no better than a married man being in love with two women.....
2006-07-29 16:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by kel_kat28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this. I married unhappily but started seeing someone from college who is also married but we both share the same situation. if i was to let my guard down i could possibly fall in love with him, no i wouldnt be able to have him. So it would be lust. Me and my husband are not in love but we stay married because of the kids.
2006-07-29 17:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is my advice. do not keep it a secret from your husband. it is unfair to him. would you like it if he loved someone else. & on top of it she may have everything you dont. in a good way. so watch it.you may loose what you love most. if you feel its a secret from your husband its wrong. if you feel you can share it with him its right and maybe you should seperate for a while so you can see if its love. but that would be fair to your husband so he has an oppertunity to see if he could love another as well. you cant have everything. its just not the way the world works.
2006-07-29 18:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by hollym 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope - it's called LUST. If your married, your in a committment the other is just lust - figure out your marriage - nothing comes easy in this world - work it out or get out.
2006-07-29 16:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by naywag 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh sure.,,,happens all the time. They both may not be sexual love, in fact neither may be. But anyone can love two people of their opposite sex.
2006-07-29 16:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It amazes me that adulterous people would do anything to disguise their unprinciple acts with big words like love, romance ,englightening and etc.
2006-07-29 22:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by ChevalierCourageux 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know women who have done that ---- their lives are a mess --- divorced more than once --- kids fathered by the husband and the boyfriend--- ongoing custody and child support issues....
2006-07-29 17:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋