I have a friend named Taylor and she is always rude to me and my friend.she would always pick things up even though it isn't hers which she shouldn't do at people's houses.when we tell her to put it down she would say wait a sec but the second time we say it she says it again then the third time she would say "ok ok god.I put it down already" .She's rude to us because she thinks her opinion is the only one that matters.she also has attitudes with her parents too.she yelled at her mom and then my other friend asked why she was being rude and taylor said she was just joking,but it sounded like she was VERY VERy serious.We don't know what to do so she won't ahve that attitude problem.we tried a self improvement game when me and my other friends including taylor to do good deeds to people.But that didn't work out well.she always finds something to complain about.So we need help to how to make her not have a bad attitude.
2006-07-29 16:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by Richelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people just have an attitude. I would recommend that you tell her that the attitude has got to go or you cannot be around her. Tell her that her negativity is contagious and you are not a negative person. Sometimes you just have to tell it straight and do things and say things that you may not normally do. She needs a reality check and maybe you are the person to give it to her. Think about pulling away from her and when she asks why tell her the truth. Tell her that you cannot stand it when people are rude to people for no reason especially their parents. Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear but sometimes people are just negative. I had a friend that was constantly this way and it was so exausting to be her friend and to be around her. I eventually gave up and believe me I am a much happier person today for it. Good luck.
2006-07-29 16:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taylor sounds likes she has problems. Something is going on with her to be this way. U said she yells at her parents, wel this explains why she yells at others. She doe this because her parents and u all put up with it, if u all tell her ur gonna let go of her friendhip until she learns how to talk to u all and not have a attitude whenever u all try to talk with her, then may be she will stop being this way.
Tell her that u all love her as a friend but she really make it hard at times because of heryelling and her attitude.
Then may be she will realize it and become a better person.
2006-07-29 23:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes have a attitude problem. Most people dont know they have an attitude problem or even realize the way they act until someone points it out to them or until someone treats them the same way they treat others. Sometimes when people are rude or want to be the center of attention they have a self esteem or some kind of issue within their selves. It doesn't matter how pretty you are, people are people and some of us have issues or are in self denial. I would just be blunt with her, make it like you're joking around and be like 'dang girl you have a bad attitude, I don't know if we wanna hang around you"... 'do you listen to what anyone says?" ...i don't know girl, just do what feels right.
2006-07-29 23:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by *Taken* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a pathetic teenage girl who likes to gossip. These random people can't help you at all. In fact I don't think anyone can. You are judgemental and insolent. Arrogance is not the key. Get over yourself and maybe your "friend" will too.
2006-07-30 02:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Magali♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set limits and boundries for your friend when she is hanging with you guys. Each time she breaks a boundry reminder her that her rudness makes you uncomfortable. Assure her that you don't have a problem with her just her attitude. Ask her why she feels that way and in time she will begin to ask herself why she acts that way. Each time she steps over the boundry be ready with a reaction to her bad action.
2006-07-29 23:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her as a friend. There's 2 year olds that know better than to pick things up in someone else's houses.
2006-07-29 23:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she aware of her friends observation? if she is does she try to do something? if not let her be aware..try to trade friendship if that works but would be the last option I suggest... try to ignore what she do then slowly as time passes by ignore her if she has sensitivity she will take this in a positive way I hope. if not try the last option. sooner or later she will find someone who will do things you can't
2006-07-29 23:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by frizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a true friend. She is spoiled and selfish. The best way to teach her a lesson is to ignore her. Don't invite her over and don't include her in anything you do. If she asks why, tell her.
2006-07-29 23:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about it. then ask her to try and work on it . do something special every time she goes without being rude for a while.
2006-07-29 23:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by kb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋