ok.. so here's the deal.. I am 18 and my husband is 20 and he says he doesn't like to have sex. He says he's tired of it. I don't know why though because we used to have sex all the time and he was jsut as into it as me. when i was pregnant, his excuse was that my stomache was awkward but now i'm not pregnant and I lost all my baby weight already and I dont' know what the problem is. It makes me really sad whenever he rejects me it makes me cry because it makes me feel unwanted or like somethings wrong with me like I'm not pretty or something. we didnt' have sex for a month and then now it's been almost a week again. I would like to have sex at least every other day!
SO, guys, what is your take on this, do any of you get tired of sex or is he jsut full of crap? and what do you think I could do to get him more into it - if anything?
2006-07-29 16:41:02 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! lol :)
2006-07-29 16:45:29 · update #1
Baby girl, It's not you, it's him. Both of you were probably married too young and he still has raging hormones. Men do not make good husbands at that age.
Too much peer pressure around and more now then ever, girls and women are dressing like sluts. He is getting tired of his situation, not you. Seek a counselor and try to do more as a family, get out to the beach, park, etc. Share more time as a couple, just because you have a baby doesn't mean you cannot go out and tie a little one on now and again, have sex in fun places, Watch more movies together, show him who he married in the first place.
You're still you and you became partners in life for better or worse, remind him of that often. You now SHARE a big responsibility, do not let him let you or the baby down due to his immaturity, because in the end he's letting all three of you down.
The question you should be asking is; how do I save my marriage because I married a loser?
Good luck and keep up the communication between you two. If you would like more guidance, just look in your phone book under Family services or write me or some others directly.
2006-07-29 19:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by V Remember Me 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Gurl this situation is kinda difficult because you already have kids. Seek the help of a counselor. He may refuse to go and give you a difficult time but if he does not cooperate you need to pack your bags and go. Feeling unwanted, and not desired is a horrible thing and it is very painful you dont want this to continue and then be one of those women that live unhappy for 30 + years, only to discover the asshole was getting it somewere else. You are young and beautiful NOW!
2006-07-29 17:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the crap is wrong with him?!!? Every other day?! I wish for that!
My wife said this to me on January 31st, 2006, when I put my arms about her in a loving gesture.
"My God! You're 50! Why are you still horny?"
I STILL want sex!
There is something more going on there than you realize or that he is letting on to.
You need to sit down and get answers that you deserve from him.
I am sorry, but I do not consider this natural.
2006-07-29 16:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 31 and never get tired of it. He needs a doc, something is wrong!~ Good Luck
2006-07-29 16:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never get tired of having sex with you. Don't let your husband get you down. Woman up and get with a real man like me.
2006-07-29 16:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys don't usually get tired of sex. he may be having an affair. i think it's because you guys married to early (too young) and now he's regretting it and he wants to find new love.
2006-07-29 17:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by san_pellegrino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm married 18yrs and don't want anymore, maybe with a stripper or something like that . i think the excitement goes away after awhile, you know with the same person.
2006-07-29 16:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by cashdad114 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i never get tire of sex, in fact i wish i could do it more ofter
2006-07-29 16:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm forty, and never never been tired of sex.
2006-07-29 16:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by benninb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hitting the nearest suicide booth if that happens to me!
2006-07-29 16:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Bender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋