Looking at your questions over the past two months 'paints' a picture of your life and self esteem.
It sounds like a break up a while ago, and since then you wondered what was 'wrong' with you.
I will also assume that you are a teen.
As adults, we have all been where you are. We wallowed in self doubt, and wondered if, with the right haircut, make up or body size, would we be worthy of love?
I would like you to look in the mirror, without makeup, and your hair done, in private. Look into your eyes, and hold the look. Ask yourself:
Who am I?
What is unique about me?
What incredible talent(s) do I have?
What have I done that I am proud of?
Take time, between each question, for your inner self to answer. If you heard no/nothing, be aware. Reflect on the answers, in words, pictures, charts, etc. When you have a 'map' of the inner you, create a poster/poem/message about it. Put it on the mirror you use each day, and read it. Feel it inside you; believe in you!
The reason for this self examination is to see yourself, your INNER self. Until you find your inner beauty and strength, the outer world will control your self esteem. You must use your inner you as a base of security; from it you can brave anything!
Take the time, as a teen (or adult), to find the strong, talented, creative and gorgeous inner you. Adulthood looms quickly, and these tools of a strong self will help your head and heart succeed.
Just try it once!
2006-07-29 17:02:39
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answered by ?seeker 3
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including myself, many people dont feel good about them selfs, so you could ask you mom or friends who wear make up, how they do theirs...which could help you look prettier
and, you need to stop calling yourself ugly, becuase half the time in these cases, the person is very pretty.
what helps with me is that everytime i walk past a mirror, i strike a pose untill i think i look godd in it, so then, when ever i got in public, i think of that pose, and so i have a little more self confidence!
try it ;-)
good luck hun
2006-07-30 03:33:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Let me tell you a quick story,,,,I used to work for a company where there was a girl that was drop dead georgous,,,,and she knew it,,,,she walked with her nose in the air,,,and you could tell she was thinking,,,"your lucky to be in the same room as I am,,"
well,,,there was another girl,,kinda average looking,,,but,,,she would smile,,,and talk to every one,,,,awsome personality,,,so,,,when I would go in the break room,,,,who were all the guys sitting with,,,,,the pretty one,,,ohhhh no,,,,she was to good,,,,to stuck up,,,,,,,, they were sitting with the "average everyday girl" that always had a smile, and could carry on a conversation,,,,,,so smile,,,be confindent in who you are,,,,,let me tell you,,,,,a smile goes a long way :) ,,,,,,,
2006-07-29 17:05:19
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answered by ~~Penny~~ 5
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