Okay, I have a boyfriend, and we've been going out for about 2 or 3 weeks now (it seems longer though) and i like him, but we dont go to the same skool and will only be able to see each other once or twice a week, so I thought i should break it up so we both wont be tied down, but we really do like each other. Well I have a prob. I think i like my neighbor too, we're the same age, and have known each other for about 6 years. i know he doesnt like me, but we just like to hang out..and im attracted to him. So which should I do, stay with my kinda new bf..or leave him so i wont be tied up and stick to my neighbor..or just leave it and hope for the best. Please Answer..thanx in advance for the advice!!!
2006-07-29 16:28:46 · 7 answers · asked by linigirl92 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Theres nothing sexual..im WAY to young...im waiting till after marriage. And my bf is a christian too liek me..and we go to the same church...thast how we met.
2006-07-29 16:38:42 · update #1
okay,,i think you should go out and have fun. But doesnt mean that you can do whatever you want to do, like break up with your boyf bcuz you see him only twice a week, that silly. Mostly bcuz u said that u really like him. with your neighbour thing, now this is not as tricky as it may seems..cuz based from my experience it's just a fling becuz you're apart from your boyf, and u said that he doesnt have any feeling for you, it makes evrything less complicated. bottom line: talk it throu with ur boyf first, apreciate what he has to say about the relationship, and find out whether both of u wants this to go on or not,,from there you should be able to manage things...about your feelings for both of them trust me there is no equal feeling for two or more person, there is always the winner..
2006-07-29 17:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by sassygurlhelps 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seeing each other a few times a week is OK. It seems like you just want a OUT from your relationship to be with the neighbor to see if you can get him to like you. Just make up an excuse to break up with the boyfriend and try the neighbor for about a week or two if he doesn't come around to your advances then go back to the ex or move on.
2006-07-29 23:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by angee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to try for a relationship with someone when you KNOW that they are not into you. 1-2 times a week when you are in school is plenty. There are some adults that don't get to see their b/fs that much. If you truly care about each other things will work out. There is nothing wrong with being friends with your neghbor, and hanging out with him, but don't ruin your relationship for him.
2006-07-29 23:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with being friends with both of them? Dating someone doesn't mean having a relationship. The only way you CAN have a relationship is if both agree to remain monogamous...Hopefully you've been smart enough to not allow this relationship become sexual. There is nothing wrong with having more than one male friend and going out with them. That's called Dating.
2006-07-29 23:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU'VE ONLY BEEN WITH DUDE FOR LESS THAN A MONTH, THERES NO COMMITMENT THERE SWEETIE! IF YOU WANNA STAY WITH HIM THEN YOU AND NEIGHBOR BOY CANT HANG OUT AS MUCH CAUSE IT'LL END UP CAUSING PROBS.
2006-07-29 23:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by msbrandnew02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I say do what your heart tells you to do go for the man that you care about more or just dont date at all it saves alot of stress
2006-07-29 23:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with what colleen suggested
2006-07-29 23:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by JOSHUA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋