2006-07-29 16:17:11 · 19 answers · asked by Valkyrie 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I like men alot but i think some girls are kinda pretty, is that normal? I have never thought about other girls sexually though.
2006-07-29 16:19:56 · update #1
But, i can imagine myself kissing other girls though.
2006-07-29 16:26:37 · update #2
To me it sounds like maybe you're bi curious, if anything. Just cause you look at other girls and think they're pretty doesn't have to mean anything. But maybe it could. If you can picture yourself in a relationship with a woman, then I would say definite bi (cause you still like men). Only you would know.
2006-07-29 16:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by gabbyx19 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know when you are gay. Being Bi is not a bad thing either, gives you twice the opportunity (LOL). Thing is, you need to look deep inside yourself and see what is there, that is the only way to truly answer the age old questions of which way do I go.
As to appreciating an attractive woman, there is nothing wrong with that. Me, I am a gay male, but I can not only appreciate a good looking woman, I like to help them look good too (I love the cosmetology business!!!). What you have to do is nderstand that you are either appreciating smeone who looks great, or desiring a little something more. When all else fails, go experiment (if you are single, if not, well, that is up to you and your conscience).
Good luck with the journey, I hope you find your true destination, wherever it may lie.
2006-07-29 23:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by mresl2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between finding a girl pretty and finding her sexually attractive. I can admire many things: people, buildings, animals, paintings, but that doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to them. Furthermore, the gay/straight dichotomy is a gross oversimplification. It's perfectly normal and natural for a heterosexual girl to think that other girls are attractive without necessarily being attracted to them.
2006-07-29 23:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by koresh419 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most scientists think sexual preference is a spectrum, with for example 1 being completely hetero, and 10 being completely gay. You can land anywhere on the spectrum just due to your biology. I suspect that a lot of people are more in the middle than they would admit, but what you do with it is up to you.
2006-07-30 00:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay if you decide that you are no longer attracted to the opposite sex and you want to be in a long term relationship with someone of the same sex.
I don't think there are bi-sexual....I think those people are just horny.
And yes, its completely normal to observe a woman and appreciate her beauty.
2006-07-29 23:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by aslongasitsfunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Supposedly, everyone's a little bit bi. You can choose to believe that or not, but the real question is: are you "bi enough" for it to really impact your life. I would say that if you haven't fallen in love, had any major crushes on, or had any sexual thoughts about other women, don't worry about it too much.
2006-07-30 03:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. It's something inside of you already. Being gay just doesn't up and happen. Plus I don't think you are gay I think you are probably more bicurious or bisexual. But I would talk to professional about your feelings.
2006-07-29 23:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u stop enjoying sex with guys and actually prefer a girls touch and kiss
2006-07-29 23:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know.
But stop trying to define "normal"
Being gay is normal.
2006-07-30 09:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to appreciate beautiful ppl and things. This in itself doesn't make you a lesbian
2006-07-29 23:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋