A friend of mine recently met a woman with 5 kids. Would you take on that kind of responsibility for love???

Answer 1

If she is single lets just hope she is getting child support from 5 different guys.

Answer 2

Great question. I'm in love with a woman who has kid no. 5 on the way. Totally. She's married and the kid isn't mine. We met before she got married and I had no idea she was engaged. It just showed up as a fact one day, then the next she was headed off to her wedding. She called me before she got on the plane begging me to tell her something that would help her not get on the plane.

It isn't that kind of responsibility - 5 kids and all. It is whether or not the relationship can really work. The guy she married has packed his bags to leave several times. He had NO idea what he was getting himself into when he married her. And now she is carrying his baby ... otherwise I think he would be gone by now.

Your buddy can't know what he is getting into if he hasn't had his own kids. She is seeing him as a surogate dad that she desperately needs. If he hasn't had his own kids, he'll never know what "I do" means.

Answer 3

Just because you love someone, does not mean you have to take on the responsibility of the children. If you choose to get married, you should be a role model for sure. And, unfortunately sometimes, a disciplinarian.
The birth parents are the ones who hold the responsibility though.
You are simply there for support :-)
If they are incapable, well, that's a different story...

Answer 4

I wouldn't. Kids are a "deal breaker" for me. One kid, maybe. A whole brood? Never. With a family that size, I would be surprised if she has any career skills. I would prefer a woman who has her own thing to do during the day and not just waiting for me to come home to relieve her of the "watch".
Yep, just noticed an earlier post. A couple of different fathers is a good sign of things to come.

Answer 5

No, And the only way that can happen is when the mother put her kid's on the back burner. Weather she wants to admitted it or not that's what(sadly a lot of single mothers do)To give the man the attention that he is going to demand from her. Its not fair for the children I've seen it happen way to often. And if she does that then it can work out even if it's at the expense of the children.

Answer 6

I like kids. If a woman had 5 kids from one marriage, and she and her kids were cool, and I were available, yes, I'd go for it.

However, as someone pointed out, if that means 5 kids from 437 men, no way. She would have to be a great woman in every way, and no more than one father. super personality, tranquil, no b*****s or w*****s.

Answer 7

I believe if your friend truly loves this person, he or she has to accept what comes along with this person. Love shouldn't be about money it should be just about two people sharing their lives together and building a family. So the answer is yes.

Answer 8

If she or I had the financial clout and I got along with the kids. Plus she had better give great head for that sort of commitment.

Answer 9

Are you kidding? Run do not walk away from this disaster. Its six against one. How old are the kids? What happens when they need to be discipline? Does he make tons of money? Run fast run hard run

Answer 10

I'M NOT A GUY,BUT I THINK IT WOULD DEPEND ON THE SITUATION...IF THIS GUY IS TRUELY MAD OVER HEELS IN LOVE WITH THIS WOMAN AND HE LOVES HER KIDS AND THE KIDS AND MOM REALLY LOVE HIM....WHY NOT...HE HAS A READY MADE FAMILY AND HE SEEMS TO LOVE THE WHOLE THING ...SO YES GIVE IT A CHANCE...

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