Is simplicity admired?

Question

My friend is unmarried. She is planning to get married in a year or two. She says 1) A lot of guys look at her and try to be friendly if she is dressed simple even when her make-up runs out and her hair is dishelleved. She is a average Jane when it comes to her looks. But nobody gets friendly if she dresses up attractively. Is her statement correct 2) When she pursues the guys, she says she gets shunned down. But when she keep to herself, the guys get inqusitive about her and start trying to attract her. Will decent guys explain the above two points? Since I am confused I cannot agree/dis-agree with her.

Answer 1

ofcourse simplicity is admired, but u cannot say the whole world og guys think in the same way, people have different thoughts and opinions abt fashion and simplicity,
it could two types of situations
suppose u go in a party.
everybody there dressed properly, u go simple,for some people u would be the attracted point, for some u would be gaon ki ganvvar ladki
so it actually depends on person to person.


so dress according to your mood u would be the best person to judge that whatever u r wearing , ur comfortable in it, or able to carry it or not.

Answer 2

Well tell your friend to be herself. Dress as usual. Dress up for the nines when needed to. Have fun and dun have the mentality that your are dressing up to get guys attention, it shows you are trying too hard you know.

Dressing up is about us having fun, with colours and accessories. Dun overdone and enjoy the outing. Thats where you will get the attention. Let loose.

Not all guys go for physical looks, they like gals with self confidence and the way they carry themselves when around ppl.
Just be usual, well groomed....and ...see where cupid arrows is shooting ..........

Answer 3

Guys are perverts and maybe they see good qualities in her..they may think that if she goes out kind of plain jane that she is happy with herself. She may also spend more time taking care of his clingy whiney self than working on herself..she needs to be careful with those dudes.