I went out on a blind date today with some chic who posted a Friends With Benefits on a personal ad. She made me pay for a bottle of water she wanted, her lunch, a cab ride, the hotel room, and subway fare back. She didnt even offer to pay for anything. Is she a gold digger? I think so. Can I get some insite?
2006-07-29 15:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by null 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, you should kick her to the curb..................Friends with benefits meant that she was offering the booty............Just a ruse to get some free dates..........Sorry, hun, not all women are like that!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-29 15:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 4⤊ 3⤋
No, It was tha first date tha man is suppose to pay. She's a woman with old fasion values. Now if yall were datin' for bout 2 -3 month an she'd never even bought u lunch, shirt ,gassed up u're car,ect... An u've done all of this an more 4 her then she would b a gold digger.
As far as "friends wit benefits" that means she wants booty calls or she wants u 2 take care of her for sex without being in a relationship.Think'a bout it
2006-07-29 15:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st question is that you have a sexual relationship and nothing more. Like hanging out with your friend that's a female.Yet
when you feel like you need a little sum,sum then you get it from her. And the gold digger, well if she's going to do things too you that no 1 else will do too you then I would think trhat you should be a gentleman and pay up. Like well you should know a call girl.
She feeds your needs and you feed her's.
2006-07-29 15:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with Benefits means that you two hang out just like friends, yet get down and dirty like lovers. You two just don't commit to one another. I've been there, done that. And for paying for everything, some women feel men always pay, no matter what. Chivalry isn't dead my friend....but if you are friends with benefits, she should have chipped in, She may be a gold digger.
2006-07-29 15:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that friends with benefits means is that you can have sex with nothing for return in exchange (except common costs such as though spoken by you) My bf said that you split the cost- say you go to the movies, she pays for the beverages, you pay for the show- now if you come across a sugar momma she pays for allo.... if not- shes just a funkin gold digger
2006-07-29 15:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you already gotten the answer to the definition.
I don't know but if she's going out w/ you for the good time on your tab. If you like her & want to go out again tell her that you need to go "dutch" this time cause you are low on cash right now (dutch is when each person pays for themselves just in case you don't know what that means).
If she's offended by that or makes an excuse to not being able to go next time then you're probably better off finding a new date.
2006-07-29 15:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a gold-digger, she's a whore who has sex with people for goods. Not even for money. At least she's a cheap whore...oh, and I like how she posted the ad under "friends with benefits" because friends split the costs of things and friends with benefits are people who agree to split the costs of things and then have sex, which makes them....NOT a whore!
2006-07-29 15:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Don't Be A Tight Wad And You Get To Enjoy The Benefit???????
2006-07-29 15:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she wants a friend with a sexual relationship, but no commitment. In other words, she wants to put you at risk for every sexual transmitted disease in existence. If she gets pregnant, you'll enjoy knowing that you are possibly the father along with everyone else that she's presently sleeping with. In other words, she's a doorknob - everyone takes a turn.
2006-07-29 15:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by alracaratq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend with benefits is someone you get together with to have no strings sex. Usually it doesn't involve dating or any exchange of tokens. It should be someone you know already and get along with but you help each other out when either of you wants to have sex.
2006-07-29 15:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not looking for a friend with benefits. She is looking for a sugar daddy.
Friends with benefits - You are still friends - hang together, eat out together, meet the family, but best of all have sex together.
2006-07-29 15:53:10 · answer #11 · answered by D. P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋