ok so i like my brothers best friend and he likes me but we can't tell my bro cuz he'll get mad at us and then tell my dad and my dad will kill the guy i like. Now not telling my bro is killing me and i don't no wat to do. ONE MORE THING --- i also can't get near this guy with out my bro in the room so we can't talk or anything --- ALSO --- I already kissed this guy but it wasn't a good kiss i was really nervus so i don't no if he'll forget it and move on or he'll stay..... SO........
Do I tell my bro?
How do i get near the guy i like without my bro seeing us?
AND HOw do i get less nervus wen i get near him so i can kiss him?
2006-07-29 15:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
OMG, how i so don't miss the young teenage days! I would suggest talking to your brother and telling him how you feel, it might just turn out your brother likes one of your friends... (hehe me and my bro were always dating each others friends)... Just take it easy and don't stress to much~ Getting to my age you are going to laughing over this time of your life...
My advice - forget about guys (they will always be around) just get stuck into your education, meeting people, building FRIENDSHIPS, and taking care of your self, everything will fall into place when its ready~
2006-07-29 15:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by due~March~2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Sticky. I would not tell bro because that will cause problems w/ your dad, bro & his friend and you, too. If you end up going for the friend, your brother's friendship would likely end causing a miserable, sneaky relationship w/ the friend & you anyway. Try to move on w/ the crush. A new boy will come along eventually.
2006-07-29 15:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why will you brother kill you if he finds out you're lovesick? I would say get Romeo over with you and tell brother dear that you really do like each other and want to go out. If he gets mad, you and your BF need to set him straight and tell him that neither you or his BFF is his property. If he tattles 2 Daddy, tell your father that there is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend.
Hope I helped. Good luck.
2006-07-29 18:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Tough situation. I'd hate to be in your shoes, but considering you're being killed by keeping a secret from your brother, I'd tell him, for the sake of your sanity. Maybe, you could break it to him gently, like by asking what he would think if you liked one of his friends.
And about kissing the guy again. Just be confident in your feelings and let your emotions guide you, just not far enough to scare him away.
Good Luck!
2006-07-29 15:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by amzraven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell your brother that it maybe his friend but that doesn't mean you can't date him. but say it in a nice way. am im sure that once you tell him and explain to him that you really like him and he likes you and you and him would like to be alone maybe he will let you. and if he does let you two be alone and you get nervous about kissing him just remember if you are knew at this it will take time for it to be great, but not perfect because nothing is perfect. and if he really likes you he won't care how long it takes you to get it right. well i hope things go well for you and your brother understands. and if he doesn't talk to your mom about it and maybe she can talk to your brother about it. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-29 15:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by ~ goth ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl that you kno is your brother type and bring her over the house, lie and tell your brother that she is your friend. That way he will be to busy with her to care about you and his friend.
2006-07-29 15:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by danicah_2100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you like he should he would understand you should tell him..and as far as your father goes sit him down and explain to him that you want to date this guy..tell him who he is and tell him you think you're ready for this....if he loves you he'll give it a try and trust you
2006-07-29 15:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by angel_monkey_44004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad about it i had the same thang happen to meso he wont kill him and pull him in to a room or some thing
2006-07-29 15:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about boys finish high school go to college then contact him.
2006-07-29 15:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just tell your brother he'll understand if he really loves you.
2006-07-29 15:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Shell B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋