what to do when theres no hope?

Question

please help. i cant take it nemore

Answer 1

You coped with your problem this long. Keep holding on. Never give up. You probably have more stamina than you give yourself credit for. There are millions of people on this site right now and many of them have very bad problems, so at least you know you're not all alone. Please don't think nobody cares. You're wrong about that. You have a lot of courage and character for reaching out and seeking help. I'm sure that wasn't easy and I give you a lot of credit for doing so. Your problem might seem unbearable now, but things WILL get better. Please DON'T give up no matter what. My very best wishes to you.
- Gloria

Answer 2

My brother killed himself because he did not see that no matter what happens if you are still alive, there is an opportunity for things to get better. I hear stories of it taking several years to happen, but it can not get any better if you are dead.
I am sorry you ask this question, unless you do not feel that way. We all have hard times, but yours is unique. Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are a valuable person, because you are. Some day you may tell someone the same thing and they will not die because you had the courage to live.
I can only speak to my life, but my life has been full of chances to become things I wanted to be. I did not get everything, but I can get a lot of what I am striving for. The younger you are the less that is true and as we grow we do not see what we can do with our lives because someone else is responsible for our lives.
If you are serious, please talk more to the people around you and the people on this site. If you are not serious, I believe I have given my best response.

Answer 3

How about giving up the baby for adoption? It deserves two parents that are steady, want children, and have good lives with extra time and love to give.

You are stuggling so much, with the baby's lousy father, that you could hurt your child and yourself more in the long run.

You were out of control. You had a baby with a guy, and that was a mistake. So get rid of the bum, give your baby the gift of the best life possible, and improve yourself. Go back to school, find something you love, and make a difference in the world.

And no sex until you get married. You deserve a good man who will take good care of you and your future children, and there's no better way to get one.

Answer 4

You are right. Sometimes there is no hope because you don't know what to hope for, who to reach out to, or what your next move should be. There is no cliche in the world that can help you, so I will do my best to be level with you. Sometimes, life feels constrictive. If I do this... If I do that... and you see failure in every direction. Maybe sometimes, you don't even want to be here in this world--that is a normal thought for someone who has been through a lot of tough, confusing times. But, you have to be here to see how all of this pain will be resolved. What are you going to do? You are going to sit alone and make a pact with yourself.. you must tell yourself, "I am here now and I will not give anyone the satisfaction of leaving--I will fight with every bit of strenght that lies within me to exist. I will defy my enemies and defy those who hurt me by not hurting myself anymore." I don't know what has happened in your life to cause you to give up hope, but you must be stronger than you ever imagined yourself to be--stronger than your pain--stronger than your urges to cause yourself pain. Everybody on this site has given you excellent advice. They seem to care that you are having a serious emotional crisis, and you need to read their words over and over again. Now, here is an answer you are not going to like too much, but you really need to take some kind of action: even if you are not suicidal, call the suicide hotline.. they have trained counslers who can give you immediate help. I also suggest going to see a priest or minister (whether you are religious or not, most of the major Christian religions (yes, the catholics too) have people qualified to counsel you). If you feel like you can't take it anymore, then call the police--yes, 911; at that point, plenty of people will be there and they will get you to a safe place where you can talk about your problems. Sometimes in life, you have to help yourself, even if it seems no one else will. We can all give you advice, but YOU are going to have to take a positive action. You say there is no hope, but read everyone's answers carefully--you will find that there is hope if you really want to find it. My heart is with you 100%, as I am sure everyone else's is too.

Answer 5

Ask for help. There is always hope. Sometimes when we are in the midst of problems, we can't see our way out. But there is always a way. Pray, and find some social services for your particular set of circumstances. If you are suicidal, you can go to the hospital emergency room and tell them. They will treat you. They are required by law to help you. If you have other problems, there are people who can help you. I don't know what your specific needs are, but try looking in the front of your phone book for a hotline, or call 211 (not available in all areas). This number will give you access to many social services in one easy call.

Answer 6

Your question uses a mistaken combination of words. There is always hope. Hope comes in many different answers to desperation. Just because you don't get the answer you want does not mean you are not given hope. Look more closely around you without the preconceived notion of disappointment.

Answer 7

Can't take what anymore??? Life? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get on with it already! As long as you're breathing, you have hope!!! Don't concern yourself with changing things to make life any better for you, instead, start changing your perceptions of things! That alone will help greatly your ability to cope and move forward! THEN, one thing at a time start improving your situation/life. It all starts from within. ;) Good luck and best wishes to ya!

Answer 8

it is a good thing that you experience and realize that in the world there s really no hope.. Christ is our hope.. we can't depend and trust anyone or anythinginthe world the world is a tota; failufre everything pulls us down..
believe in the Lord Jesus... pray and pray don't think have faith in God... take a rest and PRAY PRAY PRAY seek God for refuge comfort and HOpe....you can know more and experience more IM me masterdude1974
remember the end of man is the beginning of God... when we lose hope we start believing that we need someone or something.. we need GOD....
you are on level 3 and you are answering others people question and you say you don't have hope? does something happen recently???

Answer 9

In football, the "proper" response is to drop back and punt.
In life, just hang on because there is always hope. No matter how bad you think the problem is, there is always someone who can provide you with either a fresh perspective or help.
Just hang in there!
Hope this helps.

Answer 10

There is always hope. Sometimes God needs to bring us down to the bottom before we will look up to Him.

Remember that the world is full of evil people whom Satan uses to try to destroy you and to try to get you to think there's no hope, when there really IS hope through God.

God will help you if you really want help and ask Him for it. This I know.

He will let Himself be found by you when you search for Him with all your heart.

If you want to talk about it, need someone to talk to, email me:

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(don't have messenger on this PC as of yet, but you can email me).