i don't know what to do :((?

Question

i am 14 and i have just found out i am prgnant and now idk what i should do, plsssss help????

well i told my bf and he is trying everyting sitting on my stomach trying to push it out etc. i am not going to tell my parents at all

Answer 1

talk to your parents

Answer 2

There's only one thing you can do: Tell your parents the truth, cuz eventually they're gonna find out the hard way and it's just gonna be harder for you if you kept the secret for so long. If you don't want the baby, which I'm sure you don't cuz those are big responsibilities, and grandma (aka your mom) isn't going to mommy the child after she mommied you, then ask your parents to buy you abortion pills, cuz only adults can get those legally. If your parents are caring, they will understand and go with what you chose. You may get a lecture for your behavior, maybe even punishment, but you may deserve it for your actions. You shouldn't be doing any of that stuff until you're at least in your twenties. My mother had my oldest brother when she was 20 and she couldn't do anything fun like go to parties or the movies because she had to look after her newborn. You can't leave your baby with someone else until 6 months to a year has passed, cuz that's how long it usually takes for a baby to recognize who its true mother is. I'd def. abort it so it doesn't ruin your life any more, and go on being your normal self without any more playing around. Hope my advice helps, and good luck!

Answer 3

You should talk with a counselor or a hotline. Seriously, call planned parenthood in your area. They do this sort of counseling and can help you make a decision about what is the right thing for you to do, whether it is to keep the baby, give it up for adoption, or have an abortion. Anyway, it's your choice, but you should probably get some information on all of the options. Get in touch with other teen mothers or people who have been in your situation to get their perspectives as well. I know support groups for these things exists.

Here is some information to think about:
http://pppasadena.com/pp2/portal/files/portal/medicalinfo/pregnancy/pub-pregnant.xml

At the bottom you can call their number: 1-800-230-PLAN
or 1-800-230-7526.

Good luck!

Answer 4

I would strongly suggest telling your parents, or an adult lovedone, i think you and the father have on big desision to be made, and it should not be made lightly. Please talk to your mum or your dad, and speak to a professional counsellor, you are going to need alot of emotional support for the next 9 months...

I had a 14yo that decided she didn't need anyone's help, she was going to sort the situation out by her self, this resulted in her having and abortion, regretting it terribley, but also landed her in hospital for a week, because the place she had her abortion was dirty and unserile. Noone new untill her brother came home and found her passed out on the floor... I strongly suggest and insist you tell your parents! please

Take care! And i wish you all the best.

Answer 5

Tell Your Parents Or Your Friends That You Need Help Right Away

Answer 6

Try not to worry so much. Teens your age have had kids to. You need to tell your parents. You do have options open to you. Please do not consider abortion. To me that is one thing that you will regret for the rest of your life. They have a program that once you have your baby that you can take it to the hospital or leave it at the hospital no questions asked and they will find him/her a new home. While you are pregnant please don't worry about gaining weight you can loose it quickly through a healthy diet after you have your baby. Take prenatal vitamins everyday, that will keep you and your baby healthy. Eat healthily and if you are sick and can not keep food down for more then a day or two then you need to see your doctor. See your doctor often, keep your appointments, and remember that you have a precious life growing inside you. That is the most precious thing that you can do is give birth to someone. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 7

You are sooooooooooo lucky you are not my daughter... First off you should have gone to your parents and told them you were interested in having sex so they could have gotten you on the pill...at this point you need to think about the fact that if you choose to keep this baby your future will be limited and face the reality that life as you knew it is over....You will never be able to do the things girls your age are able to do because you will have a screaming needy baby at home waiting for you... You need to see a counselor at school and have THEM bring in your parents so you can have someone there with you when you tell them and look into all your options...You are so young and sweetie your boyfriend is going to freak when you tell him...It's not fair to either one of you... you are still so young...I mean your a woman but still a kid too...It's not fair to you or that baby to start it's life out like this...NO MATTER WHAT YOUR CHOICE IS MAKE SURE YOU WANT IT...don't let anyone tell you your wrong or make you feel bad about your self or your choice....NO MATTER WHAT YOUR CHOICE IS REMEMBER IT"S YOUR CHOICE AND GOD GAVE YOU THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE....Next time please get on some birth control and wait till your ready to have a baby before you open your legs for some guy....waiting for marriage isn't the worst thing in the world...at least then you get to go to prom and college and make lots of money in a great career...


Please, stop letting your boyfriend sit on you trying to "push" it out... He can really hurt you and you still may not loose the baby... Please hunny go to someone you can talk to, an adult...Please...I know that you don't know me but I'm so worried about you right now it's making me sick.... If you can think beyond right now for just one minute and think about your health and risking going to prison for murder along with your boyfriend... you will be in prison for 25 years for killing your baby and not getting the help you need...there are other people out there that would want your baby... Please listen to a voice of reason... Go to a counselor have them talk to your parents… Just stop and think about this for a moment…YOU NEED HELP!!! YOU NEED AN ADULT!!! YOU NEED TO USE YOUR NOGGIN BEFORE YOU END UP DEAD OR IN PRISON…

Answer 8

I think you need to talk to an adult and whatever you do do not have an abortion you will regret it later on in life. Adoption is another thing that you could do but I think that you should take care of it yourself with your parents help and whatever you do please do not drop out of school continue your education. I really think that you need to sit at least with your mother and have a heart to heart with her. I believe that your parents and you should have a sit down talk with the father and his parents if he is also to under age. Good luck to you.

Answer 9

here we go again.....is there something in the water these days?lol, im sorry, but i just answered a similiar question a minute ago, but i didnt know her age. So your 14 and pregnant, what type of advice do you need? do you want to keep the baby? is the child's father going to be there by your side through and after the pregnancy? You need to figure this one out for yourself hun, but think about this....your only 14, you have your whole life ahead of you.

Answer 10

Talk to your parents. 14 is a very young age for pregancy and i know it's scary but it's so important to talk to you parents, you need them know more than ever. You can't take care of a baby by yourself and you need their support, their moral support. And once this is all over, talk to your doctor about birth control. Your young, enjoy your life sweetie, have fun, be a teenager, save the sex for later, when your older and out of school! Good Luck!

Answer 11

What do you mean? Get ready to support your baby and try to get the father involved. This shouldn't be a question, take responsibility for your actions. Good luck. You will be able to get help from your doctor/nurse.