ok well here the way this goes my one friend is like trying to destory my chance at happiness!! i have something that could possiblely destory her life with her boy friend well here she says she has something that could destory mine!! see i like this one guy and we are close and stuff well here she was going to make up something so he would hate me and wouldn't date me!! i have something really bad that is possiblely to destory her life well i don't know if its worth saying to her boy friend because now she has this other guy in the palm of her hands and she ready to destory my life is i say anything to anyone about it what should i do?? say whats going on and ruin happiness or not say anything and keep everyone happy?? i know what to do but its sorta hard to think about it right now because of what she trying to do to me!!!! help me please!!!
2006-07-29 14:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by lil_carebear42069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm confused as to who started the whole thing, but I say be the bigger person. If she makes up something about you and then you turn around and tell her man something bad about her, it makes it seem like you must have really done what she made up or why would you want to get revenge, right? So just be graceful and maintain your innocence by telling people she just made it up. Your true friends/lovers will be the ones who believe you.
2006-07-29 14:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
First of all, learn the difference between a friend and a false friend. The friend will never try to blackmail you, will always have your back, and would NEVER EVER try to ruin your life. The false friend will do whatever is necessary to make herself happy and to stay in control. If she really is your friend, then I suggest you both forget about this blackmailing crap and discuss what you're going to wear to your senior prom, or something like that. I would re-examine your relationship, if I were you. Forget the whole thing, forget whatever could destroy her life, and hopefully she'll do the same. If she doesn't, she's not a friend.
2006-07-29 14:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rose Blackthorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ya'll are in the middle of a cold war.
I will say that guys come and go - friends are something that you lack as you grow older.
Take care - use your best judgement. Be the bigger person - do unto others as you would have done to you.
2006-07-29 14:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you two little drama queens need to grow up and leave the drama at the theater...and you don't sound like any kind of friend to her, or her to you...forget about each other (and the 'boy') and move on...
This life is too short for such nonsense...
2006-07-29 14:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to the guy. Tell him the truth, and take away the power she is holding over you.
You may just need to find a new friend.
2006-07-29 14:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop hanging around her. If she is treating you that way, she is not much of a friend anyways. I don't think you should destroy her life. Just back off from her and get on with your life and don't let her ruin yours.
2006-07-29 14:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jesuslovesyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Keep in Mind that what goes around ALWAYS Comes back around.... that Goes Both ways!
2006-07-29 14:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do if yo friend was blackmailing you? You should say we not friends no more because i thought we was friends but you turn yo back on me
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2006-07-29 14:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to drop her and both of you grow up a little.
2006-07-29 14:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by cave dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a friend. Sounds like you need to pick better friends.
2006-07-29 14:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋