You may all be in disbelief and may ridicule me when I tell you that this has never happened to me before and that I've broken up with every guy I ever had and broke their heart. Yes, yes I know, this is retribution. I just wanted to know how other people feel/deal when their significant other stops loving them. I mean, we've been together for a long time and were even planning on getting married. But just very recently he has stopped caring about anything that has to do with me. I had to go to the hospital today because I cut my eye and he didn't bat an eyelash (no pun intended) when I told him. When we'd get in an argument and I'd leave, he'd always ask me to come back. Now he tells me to leave and doesn't ever ask when I'm coming back. Some of you may think that I must treat him like **** or something and he's just tired of it, but I treated him like a god. He just stopped liking who I am as a person. That's what he said. Why did he ever in the firstplace then? I'm the same person.
2006-07-29 14:33:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well you need to find a other boy friend
2006-07-29 16:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by little ace 4 · 16⤊ 9⤋
Uh oh!!!! Sounds like something else is going on in his life. Are you sure he hasn't met someone else? If you're the same person you always were, there's no reason for him to use that as an excuse. Or....did it ever occur to you that he may have gotten tired of you leaving every time there was an argument? He's tired of asking you to come back. A person can only put up with that for so long. Yes, you are the same, but he's decided he doesn't want to put up with some thngs anymore, some things that may have been borthering him for a long time. Why don't you sit down and have a long talk with him? Tell him you still love and you want to work things out. Ask him what he no longer likes about you. See what he says, and you can go from there. If he's hell-bent on breaking up, there's not much you can do. It's hard, I know, but time heals all wounds. You will find someone else someday that will make you happy.... Best of luck!
2006-07-29 21:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your pattern of behavior in the past with regards to love or being a heartbreaker may entail something subconsciously destructive in you. By that, I mean it may seem like you may be an individual who are insensitive, commitment-shy, vain, etc. Don't be offended, I'm just assuming, but you may have found someone who have low tolerance for those type of things whereas the other guys didn't mind your behaviors. I know you say you treat him like a gem but we all behave in ways that may be destructive to relationships we don't fully realize or understand. Reexamine your past behaviors towards him and to past lovers, friends, and think about what it is exactly that went wrong. Afterall, no one just stops caring about someone for no apparent reason. There's always a reason.
2006-07-29 21:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men are pride hogs they can't afford to be wrong at any time some will fail to tell anyone about it but you didn't do anything wrong he maybe won't tell you but you was right about a certain subject and he was wrong but it will hurt his pride to tell you baby you were right or baby i was wrong so what you need to do is just let go stop caring so much like he is starting to do and he will slowly see whats going on and if he really loves you he won't care about pride anymore just his love of life but if the same trouble persists then you need to move on you see i would like to know more about you ohhh by the way im Romel so e-mail me when you get a chance..............better sooner than later :) RJD100rjd@yahoo.com
2006-07-29 21:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by rjd100rjd 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so surprised? People need people in their lives, but not every relationship works out. Sometimes there is no particular reason why, it just isn't what one of the parties involved wants anymore. Don't analyze this, just let him go and move on yourself.
2006-07-29 21:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is taking you for granted. Stop treating him like a god and start treating yourself like a goddess instead.
2006-07-29 22:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by mab5096 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, just be glad that he started acting like this BEFORE you married him. Get over it and Move On..
2006-07-29 21:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST TRY TALKING TO HIM WITH OUT ARGUING. TELL HIM HOW U FEEL ABOUT THE WAY HE IS ACTING. AND ASK HIM IS THERE ANYWAY THAT THE RELATIONSHIP CAN BE WORKED OUT.
2006-07-29 22:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well why dont you cry me a river now
get over it
2006-07-29 21:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by mano558 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And he's still your boyfriend? What are you thinking?
2006-07-29 21:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋