I never go ut.. to do outgoing stuff. My week is, i just go out to search for jobs, go back home.. chat in the web, talk to my parents alittle.. And even in jobs, i just do my work, concentrate, and then when it's over, i go back home. Then, also recently because i have lost my ability to walk normally, to jog, and so on( knee injuries) i do so much less than what i used to. Now i'm just a person without life. Don't know what to do. So if this remains the same.. am i destined to stay here alone forever? What can i do to change this?
2006-07-29 14:20:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unless you start going out and warming up to people you will be alone. Dont let not being able to walk normally stop you from enjoying life or meeting people. People arent going to like you or dislike you because of your legs.
My husbands 19 yr old cousin crashed on his motorcycle at the beach and is now paralized from the waist down. That hasnt stopped him one bit from going out and partying. that fool is never home. He has learned to drive a special car and has all kinds of girlfriends. He is always laughing and smiling and on the go. Dont shut your self inside. Smile and be friendly and you will make friends. Why not join a club of some kind or even take a night school class, you can make alot of friends at one of those places. Stop feeling so down and out . You could even make friends right in your own neighborhood or get a real cute puppy . Puppies always attract people. Or next time you get a job try talking to people at lunch and if you find one that is worth continuing the converstation with invite them for a drink or coffee or soda what ever one day after work. Friendship doesnt happen over night but it will happen if you let it happen.
2006-07-29 15:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why your spirits are down...but focus on your job search for now...when you've got a paycheck coming in, some worries will be off your mind...you'll better be able to afford to go out and do things, where you might meet people...
...but other than chatting online, if you don't do much other than spend time at home, then I wouldn't expect people to come knocking on my door, wanting to be my friend...
Hang in there...things will take a turn for the better!
2006-07-29 14:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need to get out and do things , make friends being out.
You cant possibly keep up what you have been doing.
sounds like you are giving up with your life because of your downfall. you need friends and you need a change of life habits.
there are disabled people who have a good life out side the home.
2006-07-29 14:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u don't have 2 b that pspolar. cause u will get friends. when i was'nt aloud to go out wit some boys i parents never aloud me. even then i found friends that don't go out wit boys. i'll tell u 1 thing beleive in urself and u'll b on top. trust me.......................................!!!
2006-07-29 14:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by RoxyChick30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-29 16:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by ryoma.shaebey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋