To make a long story short, the man's name she called out has a history with her. She had an oppurtunity to be with him and be happy, or stay with the father of her child and try to work it out for the family's sake. Well she always told me that she regrets not taking that chance because they probably would have been married to this day, and she says I remind her of him.
Recently, he called her up upon hearing rumors that she was married and that was the first time they had talked in almost a year, so now he's back in the picture.
After she called out half of his name, I was like who's that!?!? She denied it at first, but later on she admitted she was calling out the man mentioned above name. I asked her if she still had feelings for him and she said she did, but not romantically she just cares about his well being. Not to mention she was his FIRST!
I am going to leave it at that, but I just have a sinking suspicion that there is more than she is letting me know.
2006-07-29 13:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by Majestic One 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way we are not married.
2006-07-29 14:01:13 · update #1
When we went out today, she did seem like she had something on her mind. I can read her like a book, maybe she feels guilty. I'm not sure.
2006-07-29 14:19:18 · update #2
Ouch!!! I did that once to a guy I was dating, and it was my best friend's name, who by the way, I was in love with for 3 or 4 years. The truth is, it was an honest mistake. My friend had just left my house and I subconciously said his name instead. She could be telling the truth, and you just have to trust that she loves you and respects you enough not to cheat on you. Now whether or not you have to worry about her leaving you for him, pnly she can answer. But, have faith that no matter what, she will always be honest with you.
2006-07-29 14:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always said it's best not to cal out names during sex, because if u call out the wrong name that could spoil the moment.
U should tell her that since she can't seem to stop thinking about him then maybe it's best if uand she took a break from each other, until she get herself together. And until she can remember whuch guy sh'e in bed with
2006-07-29 17:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious. Most cases there's no mistake in calling someone else name out for that lame of a reason. She may not be with him physically, but she's definately has some unfinished business with him. Best of Luck.
2006-07-29 14:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a rooster in your hen house buddy, I would watch closely to see what is going on, and get out of the relationship if it seems that she wants to be with him.If you don't it will be nothing but grief for you.
2006-07-29 14:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by oleswampbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choices are to either dump her or change your name to the one that she is calling out !!!
2006-07-29 14:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him over - have a 3-some
2006-07-29 14:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋