my wife is pregnant with our second child and i have a question?

Question

her sex drive is at an all time low is there anything i can do or is it just the pregnancy

Answer 1

My guess would be that it is the pregnancy, but you can help
Second pregnancy, so you already have a child at home. Pregnancy is very tiresome and when you already have little ones to take care of it is that much harder. You can help by helping around the house and helping with the child you already have ( which I'm sure you do ) but every little bit helps. Run your wife's bath water for her tonight and you put the child to bed, when your wife gets out of the bath, rub her back and start kissing her see if this gets her in the mood, if not leave her be, it is very stressful when a man keeps on and a pregnant women wants to be left alone. Be patient with her. And Congratulations

Answer 2

It depends on how far along she is. In the beginning of her pregnancy she won`t be into sex as much but about 6 months into it she`ll start going threw a stage where you be begging her to stop. Her body is going threw a lot of changes right now so her sex drive is going to be down for a little while. Hang in ther it will get better. It`s after the child is born is when you won`t get it as much. That`s when it sux because the kids are going to be a full time job for her. That will wear her out and good luck then getting some she`ll be tired all the time!!!

Answer 3

Probably the pregnancy, depending on how far along she is. She may be really tired, between taking care of your other child, and the physical demands on her of being pregnant. You can do lots of things--help more around the house, give her a foot massage, a back rub, etc. Let her know how much you love her, and make her feel like she's desirable. She'll get past feeling this way, especially if you make her feel loved and attractive even when she isn't at her best. Mostly, be understanding that she's going through a lot.

Answer 4

When I was pregnant with my 2nd child.. I was exhausted most of the time. My first born was 23 months when the 2nd was born. I also had the feelings of being overwhelmed at times... to the point it took me into a kind of depression. I also didnt feel sexy with my swelling body and I was not told that I was attractive or nothing.. so therefore I felt very unattractive along with being tired.... I had no desire for sex. So.. I personally think its the pregnancy. Hang in there.. she will be back around for you soon.

Answer 5

Yes - it's just the pregnancy. It's a mix of hormones, uncomfortableness, bladder, heart burn, and just plain tiredness.

Keep on touching and rubbing shoulders - maybe a little grab butt and tickle tiddy.

My sex drive was OK during the 1st preg, but the 2nd it tanked. It's probably because I knew how crappy I was going to feel so everything was worse and intolerable the 2nd time around.

Don't worry - it'll come back eventually. Try not to take the rejection personally - again physically touch as much as possible for her sake and for yours.

Answer 6

Look at the factors around it? What was she like before she got pregnant? Is she suffering from morning sickness - that will really put a big hit on her libido? How stressed is she? Is there more you could be doing to help out with your first born? It could just be the pregnancy or it could be a combination of factors.

Answer 7

This is her second child. She may be depressed and overwhelmed about the prospects of the new arrival. Give her as much support and attention as you can. Offer to help her do some of the household chores. The little things truly make a difference.

Answer 8

pregnancy does weird things, there will be times and there will not be times, just be there for her love her and help her through this. I have four children, and only one pregnancy did i want any i thought that i was strange until i found others like that too.

Answer 9

You might be able to do some sensual and romantic things for her and maybe that might help. Just know that her hormaones and body is already out of wack. Just be respectful and ask her what is up. Don't hide your feelings. Be polite and respectful and sit her down and ask her and tell her how you feel. Good luck.

Answer 10

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