My name is keyshia and im now 3 mths pregnant and at first my boyfriend liked to touch my stomach all the time, and now he is starting to get worse.He is like a bug that wont leave me alone.I try to explain to him that I need my space and sometimes I need to be alone but talking to him is like talking to a brick wall he dont listen. He would wake me up out my sleep by blasting music or rubbing on my stomach.And im getting sick of him doing this everyday.What should I do about him,I cant handle this??
2006-07-29 12:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's called: hormones. He was probably like that before, you just are full of hormones and you notice those things more now that you are pregnant - it's normal. He is also probably nervous about the baby. Good luck.
2006-07-29 12:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ambrosia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your pregnant, and its called Hormones!! anything can set a pregnant woman off, it's because your body is focusing on keeping the baby alive and giving less nutrition and blood supply to the brain. It hepls to know that it is only temporary, but you need to communicate with your boyfriend, don't let it get to you.. read all you can on the websites about pregnancy, read everything you can about hormonal changes.
Your boyfriend needs to read this stuff as well, and if he is still being insensitive, then I would think you have the wrong guy.
2006-07-29 19:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by rcsanandreas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, telling him not to touch your stomach isn't going to do any good...he just wants to feel the baby...but you can ask him not to wake you up doing it but to wait until you are awake and just ask him to cut back on it or make it physically impossible for him to touch while sleeping (perhaps a separate room/bed?). As for the music blasting, take away his stereo...my dad used to do that while I was pregnant and one day I just blew up on him and threatened to take it away (of course this is my father and not my boyfriend we are talking about, you can take his away from him). And the reason it's bothering you so much is because you are pregnant.
2006-07-29 19:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by squigit1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ooh i feel for you. did he do this before you got pregnant and did it bother you then? if not its your hormones and he will definetly get a side of you that he don't want. you have to be firm and tell him leave you alone. good luck
2006-07-29 19:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by inmybiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? you need to rethink your relationship with him.coz I never felt like that with my partner when I was pregnant.
2006-07-29 19:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need some space alone it not you fout it the baby.
2006-07-29 19:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need new boyfriend
2006-07-29 19:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Steve G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋