Or do you disrespect her? I had been seeing this guy for about two months. He was so sweet and seemed so into me. Once we had sex I never heard from him again. The sex was definiely good! I tried calling several times and he didn't pick up or return the call. Was he faking that he liked me all that time? Did he never like me at all? Why would a guy go to so much trouble for one lay?? And why wouldn't he want it more if it was good?
2006-07-29 11:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by jen j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so you fell for the " hey sugarbritches" routine...?? i'm afraid to say this but you just become a 'notch' on the male ego bedpost. He behaved dispicably to you and he should be thrashed to within an inch of his life.....Its not your fault , its your niiavity to think that these cads dont prey on girls like you... why didn't you reel out a little bait at a time over a few months honey...?? hmm??
now dont go disrespecting us genuine decent guys that do care about the feelings of women will you. . one day you will feel that tingle in your toes and in the pit of stomach with dizzy swirly thoughts about a boy that wont do the same deeds that has befallen you ......and you may think he's a wimp , but he will be just courteous, and gentlemanly because he respects your positition on how you want to take the relationship.......and thats slowly..bye. x x x
2006-07-29 12:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by tally Ho ! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't judged us all because some guy isn't answering your calls, we aren't all the same. I'm sorry for you that you had that guy that has hurt you. I say leave him, he was the type of a sex maniac. He wanted only to have sex with you then he would leave you to find another victim. He's a hunter, i stupid one who thinks that girls are trophies. I in the name of all men and boys are asking you for forgiveness. I'm so sorry for you, that you are hurt. Please leave him and do not consider us like him. You are better than him, he was only a jerk. Forget about him, you will find a better one. Just go and continue your life, he doesn't deserves your attention. Do you agree?I hope i was a helping hand for you.
2006-07-29 19:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Soso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some guys sex is just a game for them in general. It becomes more of a sport than a meaningful relationship. The sex might have been great for you but he could be getting better sex for himself elsewhere. And for all you know he could have been laying down with other women while he was waiting for you to give it up.
I know of a few women who are ready and willing to go home with me tonight if the opportunity presented itself but it would be wrong of me to use them for my own amusement. Some guys wrongly use that opportunity to their advantage.
2006-07-29 19:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months only known him and you slept with him???
Morals these days, but that is what happens when you give it up so early in the relationship. Girls have to have more respect for themselves when it comes to sex cause once a guy gets what he wants, he don't respect you as much anymore regardless what they say!
2006-07-29 19:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by MissShorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are weird like that. Its like once they get what they want, they don't want it anymore. I guess the thrill of the chase is gone.
I would suggest you learn from this and move on.
2006-07-29 18:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys look for two kinds of girls, those they can have sex with and those they will marry. sorry honey you fall into the first category.
2006-07-29 19:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are hunters sweetie, and they love to hunt women .And once you kill something you don't go back to kill it aging. Don't take it personal it happens to the best of us. forget about him. there's no sense in trying to make sense out of nonsense
2006-07-29 19:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess that is a good reason to wait until you are married.
2006-07-29 19:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by isellpc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya got played, hon...happens to all of us at one point. Welcome to the club!!
2006-07-29 19:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋