I have been with this guy for over a year continued?

Question

THANKS FOR YOUR RESPONSE BUT I AM SO IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY I DON'T THINK I CAN LIVE WITHOUT HIM. I AM EVEN WILLING TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM I CAN'T JUST LET HIM GO I NEED HIM IN MY LIFE I LOVE HIM I JUST WISH HE LOVED ME BACK .

help me please

Answer 1

The sad thing is that you, or anybody else, can make love happen. If he doesn't have feelings for you then you have to accept it and live your life for yourself - not for him.

One of the hardest things in life is facing rejection and being alone. For that reason, many people do not communicate as well as they should.

If you can both sit and talk about your feelings, your goals, your desires and your futures - you might be able to work things out. If there is a communication problem in your relationship, you need to learn how to open the doors of communication and it is really a very easy thing to do.

First, set up these ground rules:
1) Always be respectful to each other.
2) Always be tactful and caring when you talk with each other - whether it is idle chat or facing an important issue.
3) Avoid activities which will put somebody on the defensive. these activities include but are not limited to:
** A) Name Calling is allowed
** B) Low Blows are not allowed (i.e. bringing up unrelated issues such as weight problems solely for the purpose of hurting your partners feelings)
** C) No bringing up the past unless it pertains to the current issue. If you are discussing money issues, you cannot bring up past infidelities as an example.
** D) No sarcasm in anger is allowed.
** E) No insults are allowed.
4) When you state your issues, state them respectfully, calmly and with care not to unnecessarily offend your partner.
5) After you state your issues, all your partner to fully reply to the issues on hand so that you can understand their point of view or their reasoning.

Sometimes you will not be able to resolve an issue immediately. Sometimes you will have to compromise on issues. If you practice open, honest communications, your relationships will be much fuller and you might not be faced with losing somebody you care about.

I wish you both all the best!