i have lots of friends that i think dont like me
2006-07-29 11:07:27 · 7 answers · asked by samantha k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You honestly can't know. However, that's what friendship is about. Trust. Trust in your friends and in return you will get the same. You just need to trust them when they say that they like you and realize that if they didn't like you then they wouldn't talk to you or hang around you in the way that they do.
2006-07-29 11:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by warm_like_winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say friend, you should have specified, because remember there are different kinds of friends..(social, intimate, best etc.) For intimate friend - they are constantly concerned about you and try to assist you in whatever way they can, loving, and kind, even if they get angry with you, they don't do it in a way for you to feel embarrased, they make you know how they feel, at the same time hoping you'll understand.
A regular friend, will keep in contact with you from time to time during the week, inquiring that your'e ok, etc, when they have a problem, they usually feel safe to discuss it with you, when you tell them yours, they respond in a sympathetic manner and give you suggestions as to how to improove the situation, they don't just sit there listening, they are always willing to lend you a helping hand and you know you can always rely on them and they rely on you through thick and thin (good times and bad). They will not gossip about you behind your back,anything said about you will always be positive, and the negative, they would reveal only to you.
If the friends you have do not exhibit all of these qualities and more, be careful, they may not be who you think they are!
2006-07-29 11:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by neji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think anyone can tell... unless that person tells you! ive felt like that before... but then i found out that i felt like that because i ackted like i didnt like her.. so she starded to hate me. BUT another story is that i have a friend that didnt like me .. but its because she was jelouse of me! but unless your straigh up with that person and ask them if they really dont like you.... you probley wont know tell they tell you.... and thats if they even tell you!!!
2006-07-29 11:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by NeveR pRoMisE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making the effort of talking to them. See if they call/email/Im you. And if not then you really know.
2006-07-29 11:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by LA LA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they call u ...they support u ...they hangout with ...lost of stuff dear
2006-07-29 11:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by KURTANGLE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust no one
2006-07-29 11:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by whoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know!?
2006-07-29 11:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋