specially before he c u m m s?
2006-07-29 10:34:19 · 22 answers · asked by PeterPAn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is so excited that he doesnot know how to act , i find it sexy in a guy !
2006-07-29 10:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dayan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it is a turn on for him. Not all guys like that, but some do. If you dislike it, tell him. I know I couldnt handle the hair pulling part. On the other hand, the very bad words can be fun...
Tell him what turns you on. You guys can incorporate that to spice things up.
2006-07-29 10:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Hello,
I understand your concern.
It is normal, however, obviously not what you expect. And it really gets old, and maybe even a bit scary if that is his only way.
It would be good for him to at least start out gentle, for you....so that you BOTH get what you want from the experience.
Be very careful about taking away a man's fantasy for him to c u m. If you take it away from him, with your insistance, or making him feel guilty, it could totally ruin his sexual urge for YOU.
It's his thing. Try to "get into the moment" with him, as much as you can...and anything beyond your comfort zone, holler ouch! and when it's over, laughingly and lovingly tell him what was a bit too much, that he can temper down.
Too many of us were raised to have victorian restrictions in our minds on the sexual encounter... get rid of that as much as you can, and go into your bedroom with your husband totally UNinhibited as much as you can,
and always keep it FUN. Have a blast...
and if he likes sex talk, yell out hot and nasty things back at him. Enjoy it while you have it....
stw
;p
2006-07-29 10:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help turn him on, but what you need to do is sit him down and plainly tell him that you either do or don't like it. You need to set boundaries for you and your relationship so that way both of you are comfortable in the relationship. Doing this also keeps no one guessing. It makes it where everyone is alright with it.Do not be shy or stand-offish. Be straight forward and tell him how you feel and how you think about it. Give him alternatives to his actions. Tell him something you'd like him to do. Don't let him guess about whether or not you are liking it or not liking it. Good luck.
2006-07-29 13:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by lmfansler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very normal. It turns him on to be a little rough. Everyone is different. Some women like it, some don't. I think you both should try and find what pleases eachother, and go with it. Everyone has different needs in bed.
2006-07-29 11:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are so turned on by the pulling hair thing...not sure why. try putting your hair in a bun sometimes. if he likes it out, tell him not to pull it too hard.
The dirty words are normal. Just relax he is not trying to insult you, I believe his orgasm is just so intense he doesnt know what to s ay :)
2006-07-29 10:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, can be for some...IF he is hurting you by pulling your hair, then tell him! There can be little pleasure in that for you...unless you are into pain. The dirty words...who cares! Good luck, now get back in that bedroom and pull HIS hair when you ***. See if he likes it!
2006-07-29 10:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Its the mother whore thing you know a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. just relaxes have fun don't hold back he's your husband
2006-07-29 10:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is normal BUT I think that is kind of like a fantasy for him do that... and he enjoys you... that is good!
yeah.. I know sounds weird but, anyway, we all do weird things while sex, you might not take it that way, but if others could see while making love to your husband...they might also say, uh! she acts weird.
I think this is just one way to make himself exited!
However if that hurts you or makes you feel uncorfortable, talk to him.
2006-07-29 10:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by moon light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal nor is is kinky, it's what he likes. If you don't like it tell him to stop. Be prepared for the repercussions.
2006-07-29 11:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by Grown Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it just turns him on. As long as the pain isn't too much for you, then it would be a problem.
2006-07-29 10:37:51 · answer #11 · answered by creativefisher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋