What do i do with my baby!!!!?

Question

I'm 16 and my son Leo was born a while ago, and my girlfriend has given him to me for the next week because shes going away. She was in a rush giving him to me, and i havnt the faintest idea what im supposed to do. All my family go out most nites so i probably wont have them here. Please help me - just tell me what i do!!

Answer 1

The basic thing is feed, change, put to bed, and in-between keep happy. I'm hoping you know these basics. There should be loads of website sources so if I were you I'd google-search for a few. It's a shame that there may not be anyone to help you out at home, but I hope you rise to the occasion. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 2

It depends on the infant's age, and don't let anyone mislead you and make you feel "dumb" for being a concerned parent who wants to be sure they know what they are doing! It doesn't happen naturally and it is not all common sense, atleast if you want to be an exceptional parent, and it seems like you are appropriately concerned about doing what's right. If you have a newborn on your hands, you are much better off, but you need to plan on feeding Leo every two to three hours. I would go by his hunger cues. If he sucks at his fists or becomes restless when he was previously content, or even asleep, then he may be hungry. Feed him till he slows quite a bit, and then stop him for a burp. A good plan of action is to change him every time you feed him, because they like to have bowel movements around the end of their feedings. It is summer, so limit his exposure to the sun. It really is best to keep a light sleeper that covers the baby's whole body on rather than a onesie or t-shirt, if you are outside. You can remove it when you come indoors, if you don't have the air conditioning on. They love to be held, and you can not spoil them by doing so. Be sure you do not leave him to sleep on a bed, or on a comforter or soft blanket, and always put him on his back to sleep to reduce the risk of SIDS. They need a firm sleeping surface. If baby begins to cry a lot, and it is starting to frustrate you or you are just worried because you don't know what to do, give Leo a diaper change, be sure it hasn't been too long since he has been fed, and swaddle him in a receiving blanket (the thin ones like at the hospital). Try holding him close to your chest. If this doesn't work, put him in his crib or bassinette, and he may very well settle himself. It will not hurt him to cry. Most of all, enjoy him, because this part goes so fast!!! Congratulations on your son, and for being smart ebought o ask when you weren't sure what to do! That is the mark of a good father! :)

Answer 3

babies need their daily routine: they need to be fed every few hours, then put them in an upright position to let the air out of the tummy (best over the sholder and support the head), a while later the dipers need to get changed too. Babies also get tired quicker than adults so they sleep more than you.
Take the baby for a walk, they enjoy a change of enviroment. Make sure to take a bottle of water cause it's hot now...
when he has an awake time you can play with him, babies like colours, round toys, soft toys, watch out: NO small parts!
Babies also love to get cuddeled, talk or sing to him, if you don't know what to say just tell him about what you are doing and why and what you gonna do next... Good luck!

Answer 4

First of all, calm down. A panicked parent is not much good to anyone.

How long is a while ago? Is the baby under three months? If so, make sure that you support his head properly when you handle him since his neck muscles are not well developed yet.

If he cries, check his diaper first. If it's dry/clean attempt to feed him. If he's not hungry, attempt to burp him. Otherwise, he just may want company, so don't be afriad to hold him, talk to him cuddle him etc.

If you have neighbors nearby that have or have raised children, ask them if they would be willing to show you the basics if you don't already know them. Don't be shy about asking for their phone number for quick questions.

Answer 5

There are alot of things to know about a baby, especially if you are not used to being around them. Please seek out an adult in your family, or a neighbor and explain you need help. If they are unwilling, you may be able to find some programs through the babies doctor or social services. Whatever you do, don't get frustrated. If you feel out of control, put him down for a minute, or ten, and walk away. As for feeding, formula usually has directions on the back for preparation. Just remember not to make it to hot (same with breast milk). And remember to burp...Good luck buddy

Answer 6

Change his diapers every 2 hours (if its poopy, right away) Give him a bottle every 3 hours. If he eats baby food give him a fruit and a veggie or baby cereal with a fruit between bottle feedings. If he cries rock him, put soft music on for him, talk to him, put him in his swing or bouncy seat if you have it. Dont forget to burp him after feedings. There should be directions on his formula can for how to mix it. If he has breast milk heat it up a little bit, make sure it isnt too hot! It should only be warm, not hot. Good luck!!!

Answer 7

I'm sure your girlfriend left you an emergency contact number in case you need to get in touch with her...call it. If she didn't then, seriously, ask a family member to stay home with you for a couple of nights to help out...just until you get the hang of it...shouldn't take more than two days, maybe three. Good luck!
P.S. Take advantage of the nursing hotline...if you don't know the number...call you local hospital and ask them for it.

Answer 8

Feed, diaper, nap. Every two hours for each. Be a good daddy! Find a grandma or aunt who can help. Call the hospital if you need help with feeding, etc. They can give you good advice or direct you to someone who can. Good Luck! Remember, babies cry because they are hungry, wet or dirty, hot or cold, tired. That's kind of your checklist.

Answer 9

1st STAY OFF THE COMPUTER!!!!
2nd change him everytime he pees or poops. Feed him every two hours and don't let any critters around him. Don't smoke/drink /drugs around him and never let him out of your site. OH btw, don't forget to burp him while he is eating. ANd if all else fails call the childs mother. If she is any kind of mother she would have left you a number where you could reach her. Good Luck!

Answer 10

You shouldn't be 16 with a baby already. Look online for things. How old is he exactly, there is a wide range of things depending on the actual age.