i am 15 year old and my bf want a kid all ready?

Question

he wants me to have sex with him all day

Answer 1

You'll ruin your life and never be able to achieve a good career, juggling a baby alone (he will NOT stick around. He's got about as much brains in him at this age as a bag of manure). Trust me, hun, just having sex all day you're opening yourself to STD's that will ravage you down there AND you'll end up with a child that you're NOT emotionally OR physically ready for, and you'll be covered in stretch marks, with ugly marred boobs and a dumpy body for years. Trust me, wait until you actually achieve something in life before throwing it in the trash.

Answer 2

Don't give into him....for your own good. I know you may not want to believe this, but it is very very rare that someone stays with a bf/gf that they had when they were 15. Which means that if you get pregnant and have a baby, you'll be a single mom while your bf is off living his own life. You most likely won't go on to college and will struggle for the rest of your life. How are you and he planning on supporting the baby and each other? You're not old enough to get a job and he could probably only get a minimum wage type job if he's even old enough to get a job. Don't ruin your life before it's even begun. You won't regret it later in life. Finish your education, go to college if that's what you want to do, get a good job, find someone you KNOW you'll spend the rest of your life with, then and only then think about having a baby.

Answer 3

Don't do it!! If you have a kid at this age you won't have an education! I'm not saying that your bf will leave you but most guys tell their gf that want a kid so they can get in their pants!! After the girls have had the baby the guys leave them! Wait, until you get married to have kids! I don't want you to regret having a kid this young!! You don't want to be a highschool drop-out because you have to take care of your baby....do you? Well, just be smart!! I hope you don't have a baby this young but then again it's your decission. Good Luck! And Best Wishes! Don't forget about that brain you have and what it can give you if you stay in school and not have a baby!

Answer 4

Has he ever babysat???? He may just be wanting unconditional love and think a kid will provide this (more common among high school girls, but could happen with boys as well) but it's a high price to pay at such a young age. Or, it may just be an excuse to have sex. Get on the pill or the patch, which will thwart any poking-holes-in-condoms or other tricks he may try.

Answer 5

This is so ridiculous.He only wants to have sex with you or he is a child just like you that doesn't understand the importance of having a baby.You must know that you are not at the age of being a mother.Don't think of these things.I know what your interests are at this age.But you are in the most beautiful times in your life and just enjoy it.Have fun with your friends,complete your education,learn new things.Everything you want will come true in the future.There is no need to do it now and this is not right already.Take care...:)

Answer 6

Dump him before it's too late. You are 15 years old.You think you are ready to have kids?To make love just because your boyfriend wants to?Don't let him persuade you to a thing you don't want to do.What if he has a diesease that he got from when he probably did it with other girls then your going to get it.First of all you need to wait to get older because it's better to get married before doing that.Don't you think having kids will ruin your future?Think about it maybe he just wants to do it with you and leave you to be a single mother.Tell him you just want to use me!You still go to school,you shouldn't even think about having kids yet.If you go ahead and do it,you will REGRET it,wish you never done it.You can't work yet,where will you live,how will you get the money to take care of your kid?You think your parents will help out?They will be too mad at you for doing what you did.You shouldn't do it.Hun,once you do what you do,there's NO turning back.:(

Answer 7

You are going to ruin your life..What are you gonna do when you get all big & fat, and he doesn't want you no more, and he wont pay child support, and he wont babysit your kid because he's too busy being with his NEW cute girlfriend with a nice flat stomach (while yours has stretch marks and is all saggy after you've had the baby)???. Why do you want to be a young, single mother??
Girl, dont be a FOOL.

I hope you are using Condoms. Call 1-800-342-AIDS to learn about how to protect yousrelf from AIDS & STD's.

Answer 8

You need your education, so you have something to fall back on when he dumps you.
Having a baby would be very hard on a body that isn't through growing yet.
What are your goals and future plans? High school diploma? College, Vo-Tech? Almost impossible to do with a little one. How will you feed it when you won't get hired because you don't have a diploma? Minimum wage doesn't stretch very far. In fact, watch Oprah on Monday; it's all about living on minimum wage.

Answer 9

your too young to be thinking about that. make him wait!!!! if he doesn't want to wait, dump him...your still in High school, there are plently of other guys...and i can assure you he won't be your last bf, your gonna have a lot of them. don't feel like he's the only one for you, because he's not.
he justs wants to get into your pants and that's not a good bf. is he 15 too?
u have PLENTY of time to find the right person! i have friends who already pregnant and they're around your age (16) and it's mest of their lives bad!!! u don't want to do that. and if you wait, you won't have to worry about your reputation, u dont' have to worry about your friends or FAMILY fidning out. u don't have to worry that you might be pregnant or not.
your going to have regrets that you didn't wait for the right person, or wait for the right time. make your OWN decision based on what feels right to you. talk to you bf about your decision before you have sex. don't have sex to please him, he's pressuring you.
if you wait, you'll get RESPECT from yourself for having the confidence to make the decisioin that's right for you.
don't rush it, you have tons of time, so wait.
u don't want to mess up your life, your too young.
has he had other partners? i mean u never know...teens are crazy these days. u dont' have to worry from the risk of getting HIV or another STD.
if you don't feel comfortable with the idea, then TELL him. and if he leaves you because you won't have sex with him, then let him go, it's gonna be tough, but it's for the best...you'll find another guy who will respect your decision to wait.
hope you make the right decision.

Answer 10

Sounds like he wants a sex slave. Take time to grow up and learn to enjoy what life has to offer. You are too young for a serious relationship. He will own you forever. Get away from him!How old is this guy? Doesn't sound right.Where is your family?