2006-07-29 10:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by Lillian Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think so either. I mean, what a pain if your sig. other never wants to go to the same movie, listen to the same music, eat the same kind of food, etc., not to mention more important issues, like money, sex. Problems, just problems, all the way.
2006-07-29 10:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Zabela 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so either, at least I haven't seen it work out. My ex husband and I were total opposites. Notice I said ex! We tried it for 20 long, miserable years and I finally left and divorced him. I now have someone that is NOT my opposite and things are working out wonderfully! We are engaged, living together, and I get along with his kids and his family. My best friend married a guy that was the total opposite of her (she is a social person; he isn't). They tried it for nearly 20 years and it didn't work out. So, he left and they divorced. They are friends because of the kids (they are now 16 and 19) and she is married again to someone that isn't her opposite! Opposites may attract, but that doesn't mean that it will work out.
2006-07-29 20:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can often be attracted to "opposites" because they're fresh, different to what you do or think, and that makes it fun. When you get together and spend a lot of time with the person, often the differences can cause friction in the long term.
2006-07-29 17:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cagey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are two individuals, there will automatically be opposite opinions, etc. Having much in common is the key.
2006-07-29 23:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by da dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too right we smell them !!! would not mind a sniff of yours
2006-07-29 17:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by charlie c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-29 17:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋