2006-07-29 09:59:11 · 20 answers · asked by wubblebum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. Its you life you should do what works for you. If you let other people decide for you then its not your life.
2006-07-29 10:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a matter of preference. If every woman wanted and could have children there would be a population surplus, and people would start to die from lac of resources, overcrowding, and disease, as disease would spread more quickly in crowded regions.
If a woman does not want children or a husband, it is her own prerogative. In this day and age, it is generally accepted that a woman may be a career woman. Some cultures still may have an issue with this however, for example, many asian families would reject the idea of an unmarried woman, as the female stereotype remains.
In English culture it is generally acceptable for a woman to have a career and no husband or family, as family types are diversifying anyway, with more individuals cohabiting, or living in single parent families etc. However, this is not to say that the stereotype is completely gone. A friend of my parents is married and yet has no children. This is her own choice as she does not desire to have children, and yet people are surprised by this and presume some kind of infertility on one of their behalves.
An unmarried woman with no children may still attract some negative attention or comments, but at the end of the day, whose opiniojn do you most value? And whose happiness is paramount. Do what pleases you, and not what others want. So if that's what a woman wants, then why the hell not?
2006-07-29 21:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe that it is wrong for a woman not to want to be married with the kids. I think it would be worse to get married and have the kids just for the sake of not being one of the women who never got married and done the whole family thing.
do what makes you the happiest, you really cant go wrong there. and if all else fails remember " it is a womans right to change her mind whenever she wants"
hope it helps
2006-07-29 10:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by vexon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever path you choose to set your life on, as long as it makes you happy, it's okay. I can't picture myself ever being married, although I would love to have kids someday. These things are personal choices that every woman makes for herself. Honey that's your right! Don't let anyone tell you that what you truly want is wrong, because they are wrong. Be true to yourself, support yourself first and foremost, and you'll do just fine. Everything happens for a reason. You're life will go where it's supposed to. :-D Good luck hon!
2006-07-29 10:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Brit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. It could be a mistake if you have children because of family, husband, society pressure. Being a mother is not easy but not difficult at all. It's a reason of responsibility and love. If you don't feel yourself sure to be happy with children at this moment the best thing is not to have them.
Enjoy the first years of marriage and then when you both were prepared , you would be good and happy parents.
(English is not my first language, sorry)
2006-07-29 16:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters, me my 2 sisters and two of my brothers all got married, .
the 3rd brother just lived with his girlfriend, as you may guess all of the married family are now divorced and the brother living with his girlfriend is still with her and with 2 children and still as happy 17 years later. I hope that gives you some idea.
2006-07-29 10:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by paula p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, nothing wrong with it, I am married but we have no children and people automatically think we couldn't have children when we say, actually we could but chose not to then they think were odd or selfish, look you do with your life what is right for you and it is nothing whatsoever to do with anyone else and if they find it a problem then stay away from them, just be yourself.
2006-07-29 10:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 06:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 beautiful children and have just split up with their father (who I didn't marry) after 13 years. I think as long as you're happy and your children are happy that's all that matters.
2006-07-29 10:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by jobe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not, Its worse to marrie for the sake of kids and hating each other!
2006-07-29 10:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG..... Yes Sure .....Us Women Can Do What Ever We Like
Keep Smiling
2006-08-02 08:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋