2006-07-29 09:55:54 · 27 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe it can. It certianly isn't easy. It takes a huge effort from both people. And there is no telling how long it can take. Within the first week of my marriage, my husband did something that had he of done before we married - it would be over. He has screwed up a few other times in the same area, and the only thing that kept me here is that I am a God fearing woman, I life my life to serve the Lord and I know He hates divorce, and I know He put us together for a reason, and forever. So I am trying I really am to trust again.... and it is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do, because it truly takes a lot of effort. Also with him, because what ever he has done to you to loose your trust in him, if he wants to stay with you, he needs to be patient and understand that no matter how long it takes you, he has to accept that. It could be weeks, months, years who knows.
Ask yourself if you want to forgive him? Seriously.... do you want to? And if you said yes, then I believe you can get that trust back.
Stay strong
2006-07-29 10:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The thing is that you have to want to trust again. In order for trust to fully be regained you have to fully forgive the person 100% and leave whatever happened in the past. As long as you harbor unforgiveness in your heart and you keep the past alive you will never be able to fully trust again.
2006-07-29 09:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It can be regained to an extent, but once its broken its always like a lamp that you super glued back together, it may hold but the crack is always visible. It will never be what it once was. It can't be its tainted. Besides you become painfully aware of just how fine the line is between trustng and being a sucker!
2006-07-29 10:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Full trust can never be fully regained. There will always be a kernel of doubt that lingers.
2006-07-29 09:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes lots of time and proving your trust worthy with your actions! Words don't mean a thing after you betray someone. So the person should know that they shouldn't waste their time talking, but showing with their actions.
2006-07-29 10:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a trust is broken over something as major as cheating no you can forgive but even years down the line whenever the person has a story about where they were your first reaction is to doubt them
2006-07-29 10:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from experience. NO! I thought it could and I am getting a divorce. Once trust is gone, its gone. There will always be something there that you can not fully get past.
2006-07-29 09:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, depends on the thing you did to make it so they don't trust you. If it was a big thing like stealing something they really like than probibly not, but if it was something not as bad you probibly can.
2006-07-29 09:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what broke the trust! If it was infidelity! NO!
It will always be there in the back of your head ! ! !
2006-07-29 10:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lilac_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, after a spouse cheats, I am still trying to heal from it, Its taking longer then I thought it would take.
2006-07-29 10:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋