theres this boy i met a few months ago.. i met him in January I think.. but anyway.. uhm i know i'm gonna sound ilke a total loser. but yeah i met him on myspace. i love this kid. a lot. and i think he likes me too. i mean we talk all the time. & he's like the sweetest kid ever. & we tell eachother that we love eacother like 543280 times a day. i'm older than him by only 6 months. and i know for sure he's not like a 46 year old or something. okay so.. the problem is... im scared. i dont want school to start. he's probably gonna find a girl that he likes. but i really really love him...&& i'm probably gonna find a guy that i like. and am i lame? :[
2006-07-29 09:52:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMFG.
i never said i was gonna meet him. im not stupid. i never said anything about meeting him in person.
2006-07-29 10:20:26 · update #1
Your not lame, with today, and the way we communicate, it's perfectly normal. It would be hard to be in a relation with him, because you have no way of seeing him when you want too?
If you already feel that you might find someone, in school, then you're probably not in love with this kid.
What you're feeling, and from what you discribed, seems like you like his qaulities, and you finally decided what qaulities you want in a guy.
If he lives by you, talk to him, and see if theres a way to make it work, if not, chances are, with school coming in, and so much going on in your life, you have more important things to worry about, stay friends, chat, and maybe sometime down the road, when you have a grip on things, you can try (again).
Search out what you want in a person before making a jump into a relationship. Make sure it's possible to carry out the relationship too. Only because i would hate for things to not work out, when you're even more attatched.
2006-07-29 09:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not lame and it's OK, as long as you don't go crazy and act on it at all. It's fine to be friends with someone like that and to be in contact but don't take it any further. Once you start school you'll both have so much to think about and I'm sure you'll both hook up with people closer to home in time. Give that a go and if it doesn't work you know you have a friend at the other end of the line (well, connection then). Maybe one day, if it's meant to be, you'll meet up, but in the meantime enjoy yourself with friends at home and concentrate on having plenty to tell him about, better to be busy and having fun than pining for someone on a computer screen, trust me.
Be safe and have fun at school.
2006-07-29 09:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Katie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is probably the #1 easiest way to stalk someone, don't talk to him anymore (trust me). Have you heard the scary stories of people getting murdered and stalked from Myspace? Trust me, people are REALLY good actors at this kind of stuff. But if you do see him, I would bring a parent or relative or good friend that you know will protect you. They're lots of wackos out there, be VERY careful.
2006-07-29 09:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by windrunner023 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are young. Your fears are there because you know that both of you have so much more growing to do in your lives. You both are at a time in your lives where you are creating an identity for yourselves. Don't worry so much about having to have a relationship with someone as boyfriend and girlfriend, but instead, see in what ways you can discover yourself. Be friends and take the pressure off of both of you, by getting out there in the world persuing your talents to find out who you are and what you have to offer to others.
2006-07-29 10:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Empathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And......you are how old? How can you be sure this "guy" is not 46 yrs. old? Do you watch the T.V. these days......"myspace.com" is being investigated exactly for the fact that "older men" are propositioning young girls!! A 15 yr. old girl in our neighborhood did exactly what you are doing and agreed to meet this "young boy" with a car at a local gas station........he ended up being 33 yrs. of age and raped her in the car and threw her out!! Luckily, the station attendant did get the license plate number and he was caught. You should have been at court with the rest of "us" neighbors........this 33 yr. old male is now serving 10 yrs.before lst chance of parole.......
On the other side of the fence........a 18 yr. old girl was trying to make personal contact with my Son.........who is 12 yrs. old!!
We made the date...........actually invited her to dinner!! Then, took her to the police dept. to file a complaint.......she is now serving time also!!
FYI............WATCH OUT AND GET OFF THE DAM COMPUTER CHAT ROOMS!!!!
2006-07-29 10:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rodeored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not lame, your a normal kid :) thats the good news, the bad news is there is no right answer to this question except to say that at your age your supposed to date lots of guys, there's no need to get tied down just yet, go out and enjoy your youth.
2006-07-29 10:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live a long way apart? Can you speak to him on the phone? Its pretty hard to make a real relationship work over the internet when you are so young. Good luck.
2006-07-29 09:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not lame. get over the kid. myspace is a bad way to find love. you will most likely will find someone at school to love.
2006-07-29 09:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Butterflykisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worie.
If you will find an other guy, maby you will love him,it would be probably for the best for each of you and life will continu on It's course.
But i don't think that will hapens.
you see,me and my wife where in love since secondry school ,and if you are in love with hem (really really in love),then don't worry
2006-07-29 10:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...if you like him...why not arranging a meeting in person...
Some nice guy on the net can trun out to be jerks, some stay nice and friendly, some turn out not to be that nice in real...
There's only a way to find out...
2006-07-29 10:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋