ok, so i'm having my 24th birthday pool party tonight & i v invited all my friends but there are acouple of my friends that want to bring a couple of there friends that i don't realy know & i don't want anyone at my pary that i don't know cuz theres going to be a lot of drinking & everytime some one as brought someone to my party that i dident know that well always ends up in drama or argueing or some kind of fighting. So my question is; how do i tell these people that i don't want them there whithout hurting anyones feelings ?
Please help!
2006-07-29 09:34:48 · 13 answers · asked by Sassy 24 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Its is your party and your home,so face your friends and tell them that you cant not receive their friends to your place,if they are your friend they will understand and if they got mad about it well let them be and enjoy your party cause there will be alots of fun with those who will be there.happy birthday and have a great time:)
2006-07-29 09:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by none 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You must be strong and tell them that they can't come. Don't lie. Just say that this is your party and that you do not want them there. Sorry to break the news but you have to hurt people at times. That is life. Just be yourself and stick up for your values/ In the end the real friends you have will still be there and all the others ... well ... who cares about them anyway. Trust me. Just be mature and face the facts - life amounts to hurting people and being hurt even if we don't want to at times.
2006-07-29 16:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them that because of the situation you can only have a few people over. Tell them maybe next time. If they don't show up - that's their own fault not yours. Don't stress its your BIRTHDAY! So happy b-day
2006-07-29 16:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like this:
Hey guys, I was thinking it wouldn't be the best idea to bring other friends cuz I wanted it to be special with just you guys. Please still come cuz you guys are great friends and I would never want you guys to miss this. Thanks.
Hope it helps.
2006-07-29 16:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by That-BAM!-girl! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a bday party without them and then throw another one the next day to make it up to them just for you, your friends and them. :D or say you don't wan thtme there cause you don't want too many ppl there, and make it up to them some other way.
2006-07-29 17:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sara V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them straight up that u don't want ppl there that u don't know becuz it could get ugly if they turn out to be someone u don't like. but don't say it meanly and snotty just tell them nicely that u wouldn't like ppl u don't know at ur party.
2006-07-29 16:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, "no offense,id rather just have the people that i've invited to the party" & if they get pissed, **** them; they're rude for trying to impose on you in the first place.
2006-07-29 16:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sorry, invitation only!" if you gave out invitations. what you mentioned in the question, i thought was a pretty good explanation. i hope it helps!
2006-07-29 16:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by killer queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up tell them if they are ur so called friends then theyn should understand and if not they weren't ur friends in the first place
2006-07-29 16:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by joe v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it specifically for INVITED people only.
2006-07-29 16:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋