Im still young but I think i mite be going bi.What should I do?My friend sed I prob sould turn lesbian becuz i dont hav good relationships with guys.But i told her i mite be bi.And she sed there was hope for me w/ a guy maybe.And she sed if I wanted 2 date a gurl then i could hava chance w/ our friend or possibly even her.I dnt no what to do!Pleaz help!!!!!Advice plez!!!!
2006-07-29 09:11:50 · 16 answers · asked by Lou Zerface- X-]p 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you'd be equally happy in a relationship with male as a female, you're bi. As for whether to date a guy or girl, well that's up to you.
2006-07-29 09:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't post your age....and really don't have to: you're at an impressionable natural stage of life, evidently confused on your sexuality. And your pro-bi/les "friends" aren't really helping you either (sounds like a horny bi girl is eyeing you as the virginal "prize"--something you have to be on guard against as much as those pesky boys, deary).
It's natural for girls your age to be frustrated in early relations with guys. Vice versa for the guys towards you girls, too (oh, believe me). You get impatient and make some blind wall ram calls in life.....and well....you get the idea.
My spin on this is simple: take a break away from BOTH sexes. Chill and find a lot of time alone to sort this out your style, your way and importantly--in your time: NO OUTSIDE DISTRACTIONS OR TEMPTATIONS.
When you emerge, either your true friends will still be there.....or wind up exposing themselves as posers....and you're better off without them. But one thing for sure: by then......you'll have better clear clues into who you are. You're way too young right now to be delving into such serious lifestyle issues.
2006-07-31 17:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have considered countless those with that exact same reaction. frequently they assume that because the boy is bisexual he's probable a sex hoarder or a transsexual (Which some human beings discover revolting) yet I, for my area, discover bisexual boys to be significantly better solid and eye-catching. On my aspect of the tale even if, human beings imagine that myself being bisexual ought to be revolting at the same time as i'm a lady, so perchance it is merely the guy?
2016-11-26 22:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by albaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that you have a problem here. At least not one that you can solve.
If you're bi, time, dating, and experiance will make this clearer to you. Not having a boyfriend or good luck with guys doesn't automatically make you gay.
If you're interested in the mutual friend date her, if not, don't. It really is that simple.
The biggest problem I see here is that your friend sounds like a real idiot. Why does she want you to jump right into being a lesbian without seeing if it is really what you want? Why is she pressuring you to hook up with someone? She really should MYOFB.
2006-07-29 15:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Hooked on Phonics is available in stores everywhere. Second, you do what's best for you and not what others think. Third, get some better friends. Lastly, quit playing on Yahoo Answers if you really don't want any good, decent advice and use your Check Spelling feature the next time you "post".
2006-07-29 09:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, how young? I still say look for love. True love knows no gender. Find someone who treats you as you deserve and the best thing about possibly being bi is you have the whole single populace available to you!
2006-07-29 18:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to your friend... and speak to a professional. It is natural to be curious when you are young, don't let your 'friend' convince you of all that crap... she doesn't seem to know what she is talking about. A lot of girls have had crappy relations with men, but, that certainly does not mean you are better off being bi or lez.
2006-07-29 09:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiousity is a good thing. You don't just wake up one morning bisexual or even a lesbian, your friend is trying to lead you astray...I think that you should explore your curiousity, that is the only way for you to find out who you truly are...goodluck.
Ps. stop listening to your friend, she aint got a clue about anything.
2006-07-29 09:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay in school until you learn how to write sentences and spell simple words like girl, said, have, please, and so on. You cannot "turn" into a bisexual or lesbian or straight. You should talk to an adult you trust about this issue you are having.
2006-07-29 10:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i AM GOINGT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING. Go a head and enjoy because in the long run you'll know who you're suppose to be with. I enjoy both and good with both, but I am married to a male. Even though I yearn for a female. so just enjoy both.
2006-07-29 12:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by SHEILA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋