first off i love my baby, but i do kno that love doesnt mean anything...b/c i have to make the decision to leave where i am to go to colorado and be with her.. now its not that i dont wanna go but its that i dont kno how it will turn out and i dont wanna put all of my eggs in one basket, get there and it was prolly the worst thing i could have ever done....and i kno it sounds ignorant but hey kobe(bryant) got in trouble there but she is actually my girl but still(so now u see the situation) i jus need to kno if you would do this or will it be okay and i am just over thinkin it it....cuz we have enough problems with the fact of our race and moving somewhere that i dont really kno anything about means new ppl, new problems, but maybe thats what i need to get out of my little box?????? what cha think about that....crazy?
2006-07-29 08:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Mike C. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your wrong love does mean something. Maybe right now it doesn't too you, but it does to so many other people. With that clear let me go on.
I am myself relocating somewhere I am not familar with and I know nobody. But although you need to be logical about it, you also have to look at it as it could be the best thing you ever did for yourself. It isn't bad meeting new people or opening our eyes to knew places and things. As far as your race. If you love someone then it is between the two of you and for no one else to decide or for you to defend. Let know one else rent space in your head. They don't get to define who you are or what your relationship is about. It is for you to decde.
I wish you the best with whatever you decide. Getting out of the box sometimes is the best way of getting on with your life. Good Luck.
2006-07-29 08:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirlup64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to think. this is not an easy decision to make. Why don't she move where you at? I had done something similar and things didn't work out. I met this cute marine and he decided to go back home after he was done with his contract. Well, I move from California to all the way to Cincinnati. I moved all my stuff and I took my little girl with me. After almost 2 years he decided to broke up with me and I was there alone with no family close to me. My mom came from California to help me out and I drove my truck pulling a little trailer with all my stuff. After this bad experience I would not move anywhere for a guy. Now I have another relationship and he wants me to move to Missouri after he is done with the Navy but, I already told him that there is no way I will move. This is the longest relationship that I ever had,we are going to be 3 years together on Sept. I told him that he can go back home but I am staying here. There is no way in hell I am moving cause I do not want to go through the same thing again. I been there I done that.
If I was you I will think again before you make a mistake. but since you are a guy is a little easy to move on, that's why I think...
2006-07-29 09:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Porsche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having second thoughts then it might be a bad idea
2006-07-29 08:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut feelings and decide.
2006-07-29 08:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking so hard and do it...Start new and fresh does help if it don't work out go back..
2006-07-29 08:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋